A few question that make you think a bit

**BasketCase** · 12-30-2010 04:19 PM

What are your long term goals?

What colors do you associate with happiness?

What colors do you accociate with sadness?

If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?

Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?

Do you believe in a higher power?

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good?

List 5 of your best character trait's?

List 5 of your worst character trait's?

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?

What annoys you the most?

What is your idea of a perfect man/women?

**ItsASecret** · 12-30-2010 04:49 PM

What are your long term goals?

Finishing my degree, maybe going on for more. Owning a condo.

What colors do you associate with happiness?

Pastel ones I guess?

What colors do you accociate with sadness?

Dull faded ones

If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?

Survival kit, first aid kit, a gun with plenty of ammo

Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?

Family

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?

Career

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?

Cell phone
Do you believe in a higher power?

No, only mathematical and scientific ones that end up controlling everyone in some way or another

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good?

Neither really. I believe people base a lot on whether or not it is of benefit to them.

List 5 of your best character trait's?

Smart, quiet, goal oriented, mature, honest

List 5 of your worst character trait's?

Impatient, I complain a lot, not outgoing, antisocial, I tend to say things how they are without regard for feelings

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?

Complaining about things

What annoys you the most?

Illiteracy

What is your idea of a perfect man/women?

Man in uniform with a heavy background in biology lol

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 12-30-2010 04:52 PM

What are your long term goals?

To work part time, and travel with my partner...

What colors do you associate with happiness?

Red

What colors do you accociate with sadness?

Black
If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?

"To get off?" laughing.... My partner, a blanket and all my animals
Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?

Family

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?

picking on me? Family success...Career is just a lifestyle

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?

Cell phone - man I couldn't do without WH? :P

Do you believe in a higher power?

Oh yeah

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good?

Mostly good...there will always be evil people in this world

List 5 of your best character trait's?

Boobs (well so CD says) Well they are characters.....P
My nature
My heart
Willingness
Understanding

List 5 of your worst character trait's?

Ah man......
Sometimes a bit short
That time of the month -and moods
Forgetting to keep in touch with friends
Clean freak well constantly re-arranging daily

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?

Addictive personality:P

What annoys you the most?

Lying

What is your idea of a perfect man/women?

Loving, own identity, understanding, funny, good in bed, passionate, goal orientated, has his own hobbies, listens, compliments, accepts compliments, helps, is there for you in need, loves life.

**Teelana** · 12-30-2010 06:18 PM

What are your long term goals?

It has always been my dream to become a (nonscary/non-traditional) pediatrican who also advocates for kids. Another "career" goal would be to own and run my own preschool. Un-related, I am currently in the process of creating a Strong Medicine Fan fic which is a work of heart in that part of it is "my story" (along with inner hopes and dreams), It would mean everything to me if somehow my favorite actress from that show, Rosa Blasi, came to read my story and as a friend suggested if ever it became a movie.

What colors do you associate with happiness?

pink, yellow, and red. Sunrise and Sunset like colors.

What colors do you accociate with sadness?

Some of my least favorite colors such as gray, purple, and black.

If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?

Ideally, my "Mr. Right," a shelter, and food/water.

Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?

I think if you are lucky enough to have friends with whom you have forged a deep connection then they become "family." I guess the same could be said about blood family.

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?

Family.

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?

Lol, ironic timing of this since my cell phone has been on the fritz for a while now. In general, cell phone.

Do you believe in a higher power?

I'm not sure. I like to believe there is some greater being out there, watching over us. However, I hold dearer and more (hopeful) to the belief that like Tracy Chapman sang long ago "Heaven (can be( Here on Earth."

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good?

Good.

List 5 of your best character trait's?

Kind

Compassionate

Good Listener

Romantic

Determined

List 5 of your worst character trait's?

Stubborness

Still working on always being a friend to myself.

I admit to sometimes being a perfectionist, though I am not "Type A."

I can be quiet/reserved (at times in less than desirable ways) around those I don't know well or people in positions of "power."

Maybe during "that time of month" or if I'm tired/hungry I sometimes can be a little crabby.

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?

Long term goals/dreams with the process of making them come true. I can sometimes want to do too much too fast or take "an all or nothing" approach.

What annoys you the most?

Dishonesty and plain meanness.

What is your idea of a perfect man/women?

My "dream" man aka Mr. Right (where are you)? would need to have a genuine and good heart. Someone who takes care of himself and those around him, close to him with dignity, honesty, and love. He'd be family oriented, want (to adopt) children and have similar ideals to mine on how to raise them. As CW said, he would have his own hobbies and dreams but would support me in mine. It would be awesome if he loved dogs, Disneyland, and had a gentle and romantic nature. Someone I could grow old with.

**WildChild** · 01-01-2011 09:28 AM

A few question that make you think a bit

What are your long term goals?
Financial independence, lack of money limits options.
Design and build my own home
Love a man who loves me or alternatively, quit letting men in my life who can't love me.
Figure out my knees so I can run again

What colors do you associate with happiness?
Burgundy
Deep green
Purple
Blue of a clear sky

What colors do you associate with sadness?
Grey - like a grey sky
some shades of blue

If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?

Secret's survival kit (among other things contains: shovel, axe, saw, lots of rope, heavy plastic, knife, ignitor, flare gun)
2 way radio with solar batteries
food

Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?
Family (some friends are family)

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?
Family

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?
Cell phone

Do you believe in a higher power?
Yes

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good?
Neither - it is love

List 5 of your best character trait's?
Loving
Giving
Passionate
Tenacious
Creative

List 5 of your worst character trait's?

Love people who can't love
Give to the point of depletion without any reciprocation
Often don't know when to quit
Over intelectualise and justify the unjustifiable especially where people in my life are concerned
Procrastinate

The first 4 could sum up as poor skills in setting personal and emotional boundries.

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?

poor skills in setting personal and emotional boundries.

What annoys you the most?

Doing things I know I shouldn't

What i s your idea of a perfect man/women?
Not clear, is this in one'e self? An SO? Will take it as in general

Able and not afraid to both give and recieve love and to share joy, knows themself, considers themself a work in progress, learns from experiences but doesn't carry baggage, compassionate, intelligent, cares equally for spirit, mind, body and earth, multidimensional, positive thinking and living, sees the big picture and the details, strong but treads lightly, balanced.

**Colorado** · 01-02-2011 01:51 AM

What are your long term goals? Continued happiness in relationship, finances, life in general.

What colors do you associate with happiness? I dont really associate any colors with happiness nor sadness.

What colors do you accociate with sadness?I dont really associate any colors with happiness nor sadness.

If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?Fishing kit, Knife, Gun

Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?Family - most definately family.

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?
I think there has to be a happy medium between both - but if it came down to career or family, it would be family hands down.

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?
Cell Phone

Do you believe in a higher power?Absolutely!

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good? Neither - all are capable of either.

List 5 of your best character trait's?
Trustworthy
Honest
VERY High Integrity
Sincerity
Chivelrous

List 5 of your worst character trait's?
Stubborn
Totally unforgiving to those who have screwed me
Being somewhat introverted (don't deal with crowds)
Overly trusting (until screwed - see above)
Sometimes less than tactful :0)

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?
Inability to forgive those who have done me wrong: because I know we should always be able to forgive. But in situations where people have placed myself, my family or others in harms way needlessly, I find difficulties with forgiving - and fight with this constantly.

What annoys you the most?The current political situation in the US

What is your idea of a perfect man/women?My wife of course

**Little.Chuck** · 01-02-2011 10:11 AM

What are your long term goals?
I want to become self employed very soon. I want to have a mortgage by the end of 2011. I want to become a more confident person. I want to be proud of who I am and I want my family to be proud of who I am.

What colors do you associate with happiness?
Pink, yellow, orange, light blues, lime green

What colors do you accociate with sadness?
Deep, dark blues, brown, black, grey, Indigo

If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?
My Family (that counts as one right?

including my partner), essentials (food,water), sun cream

Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?
Family

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?
Hmm, For me, success in both things would compliment each other

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?
Phone

Do you believe in a higher power?
Not really

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good?
Both

List 5 of your best character trait's?
Loving, Thoughtful, Trustworthy, Willing to learn and work hard, Patient

List 5 of your worst character trait's?
Always doubting myself and my capabilites, Shyness, Needing to be cuddled and touched, my feelings are easily hurt, taking constructive critisism as personal attacks or evidence of dislike

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?
Taking things to the heart

What annoys you the most?
People who are rude, cruel and have no regard for anyone elses feelings.

**BasketCase** · 01-07-2011 12:01 AM

What are your long term goals?

I want to be financialy stable enough to just go and do..whatever. I want to spend my days helping people. In whatever way want to that day. Basiclly i want to be able to do whatever i want and help a lot of people along the way. I don't know if this is more of an aspiration. But there ya go.

What colors do you associate with happiness?

Yellow, Green

What colors do you accociate with sadness?

gray

If standed on a deserted island, what three items would you like to have (other than a cell phone to get off lol)?

A companion, a knife, and tampons.

Do you consider family or friends to be the closer bonds in life?

Friends are choosen, family is automatic. I have friends that I have formed closer bonds to than my family.

(this ones for CW) Do you consider career or family success more fulfilling?

I appreciate both but for me career.

What could you more easily do without: your cell phone or your computer?

The cell, it's mostly just annoying anyway.

Do you believe in a higher power?

Yes, Leonardo Decaprio, Joseph Gordan Levitt, and Johnny Deepe prove that something like gods exist...ahh. Just kidding. I believe humans are the higher power.

Do you think the base of human nature is evil or good?

Evil, but our ability to fight it makes us so unique. We fight our basic selfishness and greed feelings everyday. That's what sets us above the wild. Our ability to look beyond I, Me, Mine

List 5 of your best character trait's?

Cheerfulness
Friendliness
Calming Nature
Sensitivity
Open Mindedness

List 5 of your worst character trait's?

Selfishness
Laziness (geez I amaze myself at how lazy I am sometimes)
Judgemental
Stubborn
Childish at times

What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?

I am so lazy girls, really let my home be a reflection of that. Just in my range of sight I can see 12 empty cigarette packs ;0

What annoys you the most?

Ignorance when you have the resouces to not be.

What is your idea of a perfect man/women?

A perfect man would be a women

**BasketCase** · 01-07-2011 12:03 AM

CW I promise I am not picking on you

I love you.

**BasketCase** · 01-07-2011 12:06 AM

Originally Posted by Colorado

[B]What character trait do you have that you struggle with the most?
Inability to forgive those who have done me wrong: because I know we should always be able to forgive. But in situations where people have placed myself, my family or others in harms way needlessly, I find difficulties with forgiving - and fight with this constantly.

This is something I struggle with myself. It's difficult but sometimes forgetting is the best we can do. I sometimes feel like forgivness is overated.. Some people do not deserve forgivness. Just my point of view. I am sure some would disagree.