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    This strikes me as insane.

    This is straight from an article on Change dot Org. I linked there from an article in a newspaper.

    "An Ohio mother of two was sentenced to 10 days in jail and placed on three years probation after sending her kids to a school district in which they did not live. Kelley Williams-Bolar was sentenced by Judge Patricia Cosgrove on Tuesday and will begin serving her sentence immediately. The jury deliberated for seven hours and the courtroom was packed as the sentence was handed down. She was convicted on two counts of tampering with court records after registering her two girls as living with Williams Bolar's father when they actually lived with her. The family lived in the housing projects in Akron, Ohio, and the father’s address was in nearby Copley Township. Additionally, Williams-Bolar’s father, Edward L. Williams, was charged with a fourth-degree felony of grand theft, in which he and his daughter are charged with defrauding the school system for two years of educational services for their girls. The court determined that sending their children to the wrong school was worth $30,500 in tuition. - Dr. Boyce Watkins"

    The children's grandfather lives in the district where the children were registered for school. The mother is studying to be a teacher, as a convicted felon she will not be able to complete her studies or to be a licenced teacher, or even to work in the school system.


    "Although Ms. Williams-Bolar had nearly completed her education to become a teacher, under Ohio law felons are not permitted to teach. She has been robbed of the opportunity to elevate her life and the lives of her family through her own hard work. She has essentially handed a life sentence for attempting to protect her children. In a time of overwhelming economic disadvantage for so many US citizens, are loving single mothers like Williams-Bolar truly the enemy our court system should be making examples of in this way?"

    There is a petition to the govenor of Ohio to pardon her for trying to get her kids the opportunity of a better education and a safer environment. I find this angering, baffling and painful. I am so fortunate to live in an area where I can choose my kids schools and have done so. They started elementry school in an out of neighborhood school because I felt the other school was a better fit for them. They attended HS in another district, I had the choice of schools in several districts. All we had to do was apply and I am responsible for their transportation. For us this was a matter of access to gifted programs and certain teaching styles for other parents it can be a matter of protecing their kids from gangs, drugs and violence.

    Help make this a call for change. No matter where you are, go to Change dot org (apparently a web sit that hosts petitions of all types) and sign the petition for Gov John Kasich, to pardon Kelley Williams-Bolar. Let's let them feel that the eyes of the world are on this. Help make this a wake up call and part of the move to improve educational opportunities for all kids!
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    She obviously broke some laws. She's a liar (filed false forms), she's a cheater (by filing false forms, her children were given permission to attend a different school) and she's a thief (by not paying tuition for non-residents to attend a certain school).

    Seems pretty cut and dried to me.

    Do we really want LIARS, CHEATERS and THIEVES teaching our chldren?

    I don't....

    She made her own mind up to do this (all bad choices) and now she and her children have to pay for those bad choices.

    Enjoy jail !!

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    I would think that given your passionate concern for your own children, you would have some compassion and understanding for a mother who is struggling to give her children a better life an a chance at an education in a better environment. These are public schools funded by federal, state and city taxes. There has long been debate within states about economic disparity in schools.

    This woman has nearly completed getting her education as a single parent, that isn't easy. I could understand if the children were no longer allowed to go to the other school - although they have family in that district - but the severity of the reponse seems way out of line to me.

    But then I guess I'd rather be called a bleeding heart liberal, than have NO heart.
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    Thankfully I live in a good area of the city with good schools because to be honest, if I didn't, I wouldn't hesitate to do the same.

    I agree, so tell them they are not allowed to go to the school, but is this woman a FELON? For the love of cracker jacks, NO. Please, let's focus our punishment on those that truly deserve it, we know there are others that commit far worse crimes and get a hand slap, this lady's future is now in question. So, instead of making a life for her children, she is now a felon... No way, no how.

    Besides, it's not as if she didn't have ANY family in the district whatsoever, her children's grandfather lives there for crying out loud.
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    Personally, I think that the one thing the jury missed, is that she herself chose teaching as her passion, and as her passion, she knew what was required for her children, yet it wasn't available to her, she didn't have "choices", she couldn't choose a school rather ,send her children to something sub-standard and so she chose to educate her children, stand by her children's future where the Government failed.

    Did she break the law? Yes...Did she have just cause? Yes...Could be stand for a petition in Governement to change those laws, where no one has dared to try before? Yes...because in reality she has a good stance...

    Law is Law, however, when it is wrong people like to make others be an "example"...I'd beg her to make the Governement an example of in-correct education for that State.....

    Punishment should have been community work and fines...

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    I read about this. And my mother phoned me today, we shared a conversation about it.
    I grew up very near Akron, Ohio. They used to have open enrollment here,(Ohio) and you could send
    your child to another neighboring school. They are eliminating that option. As for the NEW Governor, good luck..
    The changes that he has in store for schools/libraries..etc, go beyond extreme.
    I wish her the best as that was where her heart is, on her kids!! I must admit, when it comes to my kids, I want the best...and might have very well done the same. But community service should have been handed down.. Not jail and revoking her continued education and ultimate teaching certificate..

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    Here is some information from an Ohio website of, School Finding Matters, an organization devoted to providing information about education in that state,

    "The Ohio Supreme Court ruled the state's funding system unconstitutional four times. Since the final ruling in 2002, funding increases for education have just kept up with inflation - with state and local contributions increasing 15.7%, compared to a 16% percent rise in the Consumer Price Index. This at a time when costs increased due to state and federal mandates (including No Child Left Behind) and increases in energy and health care costs"


    "For more than 15 years, Ohio schools have operated under an education system that the courts have declared unconstitutional. The landscape of school funding in the state has changed in that time."


    "On some fronts, improvements have been realized. Education Week's Quality Counts report gave Ohio an F for equity and a C for adequacy in school funding in 2001. For 2008, Ohio received a B+ for equity and C+ for spending. A similar report from Education Trust found that Ohio had reversed inequity in per-pupil spending from 1999 to 2005."


    "Despite some signs of progress, however, Ohio's school funding system still...
    relies heavily on property taxes,
    results in inequities among districts,
    leaves many districts routinely scrambling for dollars,
    isn't tied to effective strategies,
    ...and, by most accounts, is unconstitutional."


    "While some data indicate that the gap between Ohio's richest and poorest districts has narrowed, other reports indicate the state still has a way to go before all students have equal opportunity. The range in spending per pupil is large, with property-rich districts spending as much as three times as much per pupil as those with low property values.
    Even as averages improve, some areas still suffer. For example, the disparity between rural Appalachian districts and the state average has not closed, with a gap of $440 per pupil in 2006. Evidence of different financial situations can be seen by comparing crumbling facilities in some districts to college-campus like high schools in others, outdated textbooks in one to a laptop for every student in another."

    My guess it that most or all states in the US have some disparity. I am thankful that in my state at least open enrollment is required in order to receive funding. When my kids started school I wasn't impressed with the neighbohood school. It wasn't bad by any means but it wasn't what I wanted for them. I applied and got them into a nearby school that was the top elementry in the city, It was a tiny school with a very specific education model. After we moved, I again enrolled my kids in another district. I had a choice of several districts and we visited schools and made a choice. It's one of the 100 top HS in the US. How did we get in? There are enough parents that don't really care, that all we had to do was apply. If that hadn't been an option I would done what ever it took to get my kids into an appropriate school. I don't think the local HS is bad but it I also don't think it has ever had a National Merit Scholar, my eldest was a candidate and my youngest has a shot at it too.

    Am I potential criminal because I'm pretty far down the economic scale but want my kids who are really intelligent and hard working students, to have the best possible opportunity to succeed? Maybe I am. Or would be in Ohio. I'd like to see my kids have a shot at living a better life than I have been able to provide.

    I see different possiblities in situations. Sometimes people are flat out wrong in what they do. They steal, they lie, they kill, they take advantage of others. But sometimes it is society or the government (which represents the society) that is at fault and guilty of creating situations where, otherwise good people are pushed into action that may be illegal but is not immoral. This woman did not rob a bank, threaten harm to anyone, deal drugs, sell herself or her children into prostitution, she used her father's address to get around a broken system. I just do not see this as a felony level action. She is being used tar and feathered to keep others in "their place".
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    "No child gets left behind". Ohio is on the list of many....
    But that statement fizzled out as fast as it started. With little to no action.


    We pulled our youngest out of the public school, enrolled him in a Catholic school. We were in a position to pay the tuition, but if I were a single mom, attending school for a certificate... I could not have afforded such a luxury. It is a shame when one thinks of equal education as a LUXURY... But nonetheless..
    The new Ohio Governor will not have his children in the public schools....So this issue will not be an issue for him and many, many others..

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    It IS insane WC - and just another form of socialism... you WILL send your children to be taught where WE determine they will go!
    Who the hck are they to make that determination? Everyone knows that there are schools that excel and schools that pass kids because the teachers are just too lazy or fed-up to deal with the kids - so the answer? Pass them and make them someone else's problem. Know who's problem they become? Yours and mine!
    But never fear - obama will ensure they get all the healthcare, food, welfare, etc to survive even though they can't contribute to the community like those who went through a school who cared about passing young intelligent adults through their halls.
    This makes me sick. Who wouldn't want to ensure their children attended the best schools available? Oh, I know - not everyone can attend the best schools right? So we must equally distribute all kids amongst the good and bad schools to ensure there is no favoritism right? That's a crock of BUNK! Why do we keep putting a Band-Aid on a crppy situation? Why are these schools that are less desirable allowed to continue imparting half azzed knowledge to kids who have no choice? That's fair - NOT - sorry kid you just drew the short straw so I hope you like working as a laborer or someone who will leach off of the rest of us all your life...

    Stop applying the Band-Aid I say - shut them down - or better yet, clean house and get teachers who care and want to work at doing what they are underpaid to do.

    Moral of the story? Until people decide to do what is right and FIX the problem (vs applying another Band-Aid), parents should be allowed to send their kids wherever they can AFFORD to (Not equally allocated by YOU and I paying for it, for them). I don't think any parent would want or should suffice for anything less for their kids - and if they do - they are pretty poor parents.

    Just my 2 cents...
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    This has nothig to do with being liberal or not, being conservative or not, having compassion or not.

    This is about one woman's bad decision making that cost her and her family a lot.

    Last time I checked, District Attorney's offices don't file charges unless they have a solid case they believe they can prove (to a jury). Judges don't sentence people to jail who have not broken any laws.

    I commend her for working so hard, as a "single" mom to get as far as she did. It's unfortunate that SHE made the decisions she did that will now cost her so much.

    We ALL have to live by the decisions we make...or at least we should.

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