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  1. 01-31-2011 04:25 PM #1
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    Okay so I have been crushin on this guy for a while now, and well things have happened hat made us grow apart for a few months and last year after a break up I had I realized that I never stopped liking him and well he is sweet caring funny and well just a great guy so idk just we talked about things and he wants to take it slow so we are and I have never really cared for a guy like I care for him n idk I really want things to work out I don't wanna keep on feeling like friends with benefits too. I never really thought of us as that till he brought it up, and today he kissed me cause well I've been stressed about some things at home like my mom is at risk of cancer so yeah he asks me what's wrong n I have the little habit of saying nothing n then he kept on asking n forthe first time he told me it was going to be okay and if she hS it I can't do anything about it just to be strong so yeah. I just don't know why it takes forever if we like each other.
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    You like him, he obviously likes you on some level since he's willing to try for something more than friends. If he says he wants to take this slow, don't push him or you'll just end up pushing him away. You two were friends first before you started having feelings for him, right? Perhaps he wants to take things slow to find out if there is a possibility for something more than friends, he might not be sure how he feels about you yet. If you rush things and it doesn't work out, it could ruin the friendship... so both of you need to be sure that this is what you want. What do you mean by "friends with benefits"? Are you saying you two already had sex? If so, that doesn't really make sense that he says he wants to take things slow yet you've already slept with each other. If you haven't had sex yet, leave it be and just let things progress naturally.
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    No, no sex just kissing and so on but yeah I don't push him like today he was really caring but itsfause I was sad but idk it's been going on since 10th grade and I'm in 12th now. I know we need time cause it's hard for him to open up at times but that's how men are right? And well I didn't like him from the start I grew to liking him n so did he.
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