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    Default How often one needs sex?

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    I feel I need sex almost daily and sometimes twice a day. This boiling urge is unstoppable. I want all of my body parts touched upon sensually and my breasts, my and my lips are thirsting for a lot of action.

    My boyfriend however is an academic man and scholarly persuasion is his cup of tea. He wants to be in bed with me once a weak at most.

    I do not know how to cope with this situation and balance or manage with our contrast urges. I often just take hold of his he just tries to convince me that sex is secondary and education is more important but I feel both are equally important, nonetheless one is less important.

    I am highly sensually and my bodily urges are overpowering and if he cannot harness I fear something deplorable is going to happen.

    I just want to ask how can I cope with this dire strait I am in now

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    Can you convince him to switch his curriculum to Sex Ed then he can kill two birds with one stone?

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    Invest in a good vibrator/dildo. Sometimes you just have to take matters into your own hands. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoddessOfLove View Post
    Can you convince him to switch his curriculum to Sex Ed then he can kill two birds with one stone?
    This is interesting sister. He is so much into his study. He is highly ambitious and he says sex or other kinds of luxuries are baser instincts. I do not know how I can manage with his lack of sexual urges. We are polar opposites when it comes to making love

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    Guys like girls who roleplay--dress up as a sexy teacher and tell him he's a bad boy who needs to be disciplined...

    At least, that's what my ex always wanted me to do...he liked it when I brought out the paddle...

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    Quote Originally Posted by BambiTurburble View Post
    Guys like girls who roleplay--dress up as a sexy teacher and tell him he's a bad boy who needs to be disciplined...

    At least, that's what my ex always wanted me to do...he liked it when I brought out the paddle...
    He is a man of personality. He is handsome and a kind of woman killer. In college girls crave him desperately but he never responds to all that. He is a selfmade man and he seconds all this trash

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    Then you need to show him that it's not trash. Maybe you can write him an erotic story and stick it in one of his books, and then suggest that you act it out with him...

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    what he is is a man that is not interested in sex. also it seems he is not interested in a compromise. Take matters into your own hands...and take care of the problem yourself. If you think his lack of interest in sex is due to something other then just his nature....that's something altogether different.

    I like my sex....lol.

    Maybe you should go for a joy ride...

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    Quote Originally Posted by wanton View Post
    He is a man of personality. He is handsome and a kind of woman killer. In college girls crave him desperately but he never responds to all that. He is a selfmade man and he seconds all this trash

    wanton, if he thinks this form of sex is trash and he also has a low sex drive, how come you show him porn, pictures of naked women, read erotica to him and talk dirty?

    If he thinks it is trash, he would not accept such ........ sounds as if your talking about two different men or one that you wish for and one that is real in your replies....

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    There are a lot of threads her about couples with very mismatched levels of interest in sex. Most of those stay unhappy.

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