The movie scene post sex finish!!!!!

**JRod** · 02-16-2011 11:11 AM

Does anyone Actually do the "movie scene" post sex roll over gasping for breath, that was amazing, lay there and cuddle move? What I mean is...for me the moments following Most sexual encounters is the clean up time lol. Either go remove the condom or if no condom, grab the cum towel. Not as romantic as the movies I know and don't get me wrong there are Some "movie scene" finishes but a majority of the time it's the ladder. Am I doing it wrong or does everyone hear me on this:-)

**WildChild** · 02-16-2011 11:15 AM

Love to be in a state of collapse and then just snuggle. Who cares if there is a wet spot or if you are both a mess?

**JRod** · 02-16-2011 11:19 AM

Ha, thanks for the quick reply WC and I hear that. We have sex pretty often and without a condom so I suppose we're just too lazy to wash the sheets 4-6 times a week lol.

**LanaBear** · 02-16-2011 11:32 AM

We cuddle for about... a minute. Then I'm ready to get out of bed. Not that the wet spots bother me, sex is pleasantly messy so I don't bother with them, I'd just rather get rid of the "fall out" before I fall asleep and wake up with my legs glued together. So, I'm usually the first to get out of bed, takes about 1-2 minutes to clean up, then hop back in bed to fall asleep.

**Seeker_Advice** · 02-16-2011 12:44 PM

Buy more sheets!

Yeah, we frequently cuddle, lay there, cool off, whatever...often until the "wet spot" is too cold to lay in anymore. Sometimes we don't even care about that and just dose off...

Nothing beats the "action" but the "after action" is pretty darn good too.

**WildChild** · 02-16-2011 12:48 PM

This is why you should own some extra towels. Just clean it up or cover it later.

**Seeker_Advice** · 02-16-2011 02:20 PM

We frequently make love with a towel underneath us, but more and more frequently, we disregard the need for the towel.

Honestly, we don't care much one way or the other anymore. Both of us can get pretty messy.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-16-2011 09:37 PM

My boyfriend gives me the most awesome after sex treatment... we hold each other right away... sex is messy, so what... there's a shower with my name on it - LATER, id rather lay close to him when we finish... catch our breath and just enjoy the moment. We'll hold each other in the quiet, or we'll talk about how good it felt, or compliment one another on something extra special

He kisses me and sometimes we start joking around and just talking like we always do before getting up and moving on to the clean up phase.

Is it movie ending? Yep, very much so. I think it would be too cold and distant to immediatly run off and wipe up and all that... I can't speak for all women, obviously... but how a man treats us after sex is more important than the sex itself for the vast majority of us. There is a vulnerability and emotional state that is felt right after we orgasm, after we have had someone INSIDE of our body... and the reassuring holding and kisses can make everything that just happened feel beautiful and special -- and the lack of all that and just wiping off would feel too disconnected, I'd feel sort of used if my guy hopped up right away to go clean his penis off.

But its all about timing too... a quickie on the living room floor on the way to a movie... no holding required lol

we can get up and clean up right away so that we're not late!! I don't need some movie ending holding EVERytime we have sex... but it depends on the kind of sex, for what I want after. If we have some heated moment in a bathroom... we can clean up , give each other a peck and move on with our evening -- if its passionate and intimate in the bed sex, I want to feel that closeness after.

**Amber** · 02-17-2011 09:21 PM

I remember how it was the the friends with benefit guy. He was the first guy I was ever with. The three times I was with him was just plain awkward, but then I was very tight inside and couldn't get use to being touched on the clitoris. But I remember after wards, I wanted to cuddle. I tried once and he got up. He didn't want anything to do with that. But I guess that is what happens with FWB. You are not suppose to cuddle. But it left me feeling empty inside.

With my ex-boyfriend, it didn't get too messy because I never orgasm. I don't remember if we got up or just stayed in bed after we finished. I want to say we got up. But that is ok because later on when we went to bed, we cuddled. And it wasn't wonderful in bed anyways so I was getting antsy just being in bed.

It was probably better that the cuddling occurred after I got the nervous feeling out of me.

But I would hope to have the cuddling if the sex had been good. But then I don't know what it feels like to get messy like everyone is talking about here.

I do miss the cuddling and snuggling up together. I also missed just being held by a man so much.

I so much wish I had a man to hold me right now.