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    Since the clitoris is so sensitive, do women get a "thrill" from riding a bike? I mean is it like humping furniture, lol, I'm kind of embarrassed to ask, but curious. One other thing, I had a girlfriend that had an orgasm every time she sneezed, is that possible? She always told me that she was constantly wet and ready. I should have married her, God was she ever great in bed. I still think of her and our times when doing myself.

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    If you are constantly thinking about sex and things that arouse you and you stimulate something that is so sensitive and you associate any sort of touch as a sexual touch then yes everything from being on a washing machine to riding a bike could result in a 'thrill'. But if a woman rides her bike and does not think about sex then not likely. It is not just touch = thrill (as some guys think lol aka rubbing her furiously between the legs while watching tv thinking that his woman will therefore be good to go), it is touch + arousal = thrill.
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    The c. is not exposed enough to constantly be aroused. Thank God!

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    The "old" Harleys and even some new "de-tuned" v-twin engines are and were justly "famous" for the vibrations effect on the female passenger.
    In the "old biker" circles the joke was that the way to keep a profanity filter (sorry for the "slang" ladies) happy was to toss her a tennis ball at the start of the trip. Properly placed it transmitted the vibrations of the seat to the most efficacious spot.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ItsASecret View Post
    If you are constantly thinking about sex and things that arouse you and you stimulate something that is so sensitive and you associate any sort of touch as a sexual touch then yes everything from being on a washing machine to riding a bike could result in a 'thrill'. But if a woman rides her bike and does not think about sex then not likely. It is not just touch = thrill (as some guys think lol aka rubbing her furiously between the legs while watching tv thinking that his woman will therefore be good to go), it is touch + arousal = thrill.
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    In male terms, our clitoris is the equivalent of the head of your penis. Lots of nerve endings and sensitive.

    In other words, every man probably doesn't think of sex or get turned on EVERY time something touches or brushes up against the head of his penis. And every woman doesn't get turned on when something touches or brushes up against the clitoris.

    Riding a bike puts pressure on that entire area. But pressure does not always equal pleasure. So, the answer that some women may, but I definitely don't think that's the norm.

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    I don't know about any other man, but if the head of my penis is touched it will come up. That said, it's been so long since it has been touched by a woman I'm positive when she brushes up against it I will get hard instantly. Everyone is different I know, but I have known some women who were so sensitive that the slightest touch on her clit made her absolutely crazy. That's my kind of woman.
    My wife's is either extremely sensitive or she thinks her vagina is dirty. I can only touch it with my penis. She hates rear entry into her vagina, but if I just rub my penis between her lips and it rubs her clit, she has to turn over and she wants me in her vagina and my balls in her pubic hair slowly moving side to side rubbing her clit. It makes her go crazy, and she humps the he'll out of me. 10 minutes and she's done, I'm left wanting more and she doesn't care about my needs. The more I think of it, the more I wonder how she would react if I just got a nut and left her wet and wanting more, I'd bet that would hack her off something fierce. But yet, it's okay for me to be left that way. Maybe I'll try it next time we have our annual sex session.

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    I have heard before about some women get turned on by horse riding (while there on the horses back of course!)

    But, again I'd agree with the other poster's. It has to do with whether the woman is thinking about sex or is turned on, other wise it does seem unlikely.

    The way you said about the woman being on a motorcycle, meaning she has her legs both sides and the bike sits between. That does not necesserily mean, that anything a woman sits on that goes between her legs will instantly turn her on or make her think sexually.

    You should have a talk with your wife about your needs, because from what you write, it seems to me that you feel your being used for her sexual needs, the few times it happens as you call it annual sex session. That's not a healthy feeling to have.
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    Agony_Aunt, that's what I have been saying here, but it seems that you are about the only one who see's it as a problem. I think of it as not being a sex life. I don't care what anyone else calls it. If it's not happening at least 2 to 3 times a month, it isn't anything to me. Anything less than that is just a bs tease session. Some women don't understand that sex is the glue that holds a marriage together. No glue, no marriage. My signature line says everything I need to say about it.

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    Sex is not the glue that holds a marriage together, but.. It is a part of marriage.

    Everyone has the need to be loved and cared for and the need for sexual attention. A lot of people will say that Trust is the main thing in a relationship/marriage, but to me communication is the key.

    If I put myself in your shoes, and had a partner who didn't seem interested after they had got their pleasure for sex, and didn't care for my needs, I would feel pretty down and not interested anymore and I would be hurt by that, so I can see where you are coming from.

    Next is, don't wait until your next time you have sex, to leave her all wet and wanting more, to make her see how it feels. 2 wrong's, never make a right, Mark.

    This brings us back to Communication. Sit down and talk with her, tell her that you feel un-loved during sex and that you feel used.
    From what I gather, the few times that she does want sex, she gets her ten mins and is done, and doesn't think about your needs.
    So that is why you have to step back and actually not have sex with her if that is going to continue.
    If it was a woman in your position, she would call the man selfish, and that's basically what it is.

    My advice to you is to not have sex again, until you have talked this out with your wife, and tell her how you feel.
    You are communicating here with us, so now it's time to do some with your wife, talk it out and try to come to an agreement.

    It takes two, and it has to work both ways.
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