Ask Women

**kristalyn_04** · 05-12-2011 05:43 PM

Re-starting this thread.

Anyone have questions for the ladies here? Or if you want re-ask a question that was in the previous thread, go for it!

**spurzzz** · 05-13-2011 04:39 AM

What is the worst chat up line, routine, technique that you have come across?

What is the best?

**miffed23** · 05-13-2011 05:05 AM

Originally Posted by spurzzz

What is the worst chat up line, routine, technique that you have come across?

What is the best?

Do people still do this? Worst - yesterday - "I need a date for saturday. Wanna come along sweetcheeks?" Yes, its straight to the point. But when you hardly know the guy, its a little ermm...forward.

Best - don't use a technique. Its unnatural and will always come across that way, which for me, is rather off putting. It's a cliche, but be yourself, be flirty, complementary. I think it's quite obvious to see when someone is interested just by their actions.

**SaharaJim** · 05-13-2011 09:13 AM

Best line....hmmm...well I have to "please " the Mrs. so I usually go with: " Beautiful day why don't we take the bikes and go ____. She will go almost anywhere if she can ride her VTX1800 Trike there.

Worst line

well...It's too hot/cold/wet to ride today how about we take the truck and_______. Unless it's really bad out - this usually gets me a SNEER; and "I'm riding to _____ see you there".

**MarkT** · 05-13-2011 09:42 AM

I never did use "lines", they all seemed so fake to me. Miffed23, sweetcheeks? is that what he said? OMG, I would never say anything like that to someone I barely knew. Forward, maybe - But, How Rude!

Okay Ladies, how about this to ask a Lady out, So, are you busy this weekend? Because I would like to know if you would be interested in going to a movie with me.
Or, I heard about a movie coming out and it seemed very interesting, would you like to join me? BTW, I like your new hairdo-
A real compliment, not fake-

Another question, when a man asks his wife out on a date- would she prefer him to just ask or really be romantic about it, like maybe holding her hands and naturally swinging arms. I never take it for granted that my wife wants to do anything with me, I always ask her first. Maybe she isn't in the mood or wants to go do something else.
Am I doing the right thing? I also say, "Same for me.", after she orders. Right or wrong? Sometimes we will order different things and share with each other. After 12 years together, I still delight in feeding her something I know she enjoys like cherry tomotoes or strawberries.

**MarkT** · 05-13-2011 10:02 AM

So many questions, so little time-
If you didn't have to worry about pregnancy would you enjoy sex more?
Does it feel better when you and your partner climax at the exact same time and does it make the experience more intense? It does for myself and my wife. Just wondered how everyone else felt about it.

**Texinator** · 05-13-2011 12:55 PM

Inspired by Lana's question in the Ask Men thread, I thought I'd ask what women think of men who get manicures and pedicures?

**Agony_Aunt** · 05-13-2011 01:36 PM

Originally Posted by Tex

Inspired by Lana's question in the Ask Men thread, I thought I'd ask what women think of men who get manicures and pedicures?

Let's just say I'd rather clean nail's than dirty ones!

**WildChild** · 05-13-2011 01:56 PM

Originally Posted by Agony_Aunt

Let's just say I'd rather clean nail's than dirty ones!

True but...
Clean, well cared for hands with trimmed nails are one thing. But men with obvious manicures and especially with shiny nails is bit off putting to me. But then I WORK with my hands and so do most of the men I know. I shook hands with a man last night who had softer hands than I've had since I was kid. It was little strange. Mine aren't really rough or anything but most of the men I know have calloused and powerful hands.

I don't like women having really long nails either. They can't really use their hands. I just can't see limiting your ability to use your hands for a "look".

**Beautiful Disaster** · 05-13-2011 02:06 PM

So many questions, so little time-
If you didn't have to worry about pregnancy would you enjoy sex more?
Does it feel better when you and your partner climax at the exact same time and does it make the experience more intense? It does for myself and my wife. Just wondered how everyone else felt about it.

Yes. And Yes.