The sugar example would be someone who wouldn't be as well off, btw.
Okay, so I was listening to the radio this morning and they brought up an interesting topic: How did you know a kids family was "Rich"... now I am not saying millionaire rich, but you know...better off?
For example someone said "Their Koolaid wasn't as sweet because they saved on sugar and wouldn't put the whole scoop of sugar in"
One way I knew a kid was better off was because they wore name brand clothing. Calvin Klein, Tommy Hilfiger, Abercrombie, Aeropostle, etc. They also had mom's home in the morning to fix their hair. (My mom worked at 6 am so I had to get myself ready for school)
What were yours?
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
The sugar example would be someone who wouldn't be as well off, btw.
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
I can't really think of anything. I knew kids from poorer families that were always wearing new Nikes and expensive jeans, because for some reason they decided that was something important to spend a lot of money on, and I knew kids from richer families that were wearing stuff they bought on discount at Walmart.
I also remember other kids having things like Craft Singles cheese slices, fruit snacks, name brand spaghettios, and even name brand snacks. We never had the cheese slices or fruit snacks. It was such a treat when I went to my friends house! LOL
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
If you care, you can look at where they live. Most people (except the exceptionally wealth) spend a significant fraction of their net worth on their houses. Clothes, cars, etc don't tell you much - I know some very wealthy people who wear normal clothes and drive old cars - when you have that much money, these aren't status symbols anymore.
I used to think kids with lunch boxes that were made of plastic and had the cup in it were rich! I later learned I was wrong, though.
I am speaking from a child's point of view, before you knew the financial aspect of what "rich" or "not rich" meant...we didn't spend a whole lot of time looking at houses, except for the insides if we were invited over.
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
Clothing was always a big thing as a child.
It was the false perception of judging a book by it's cover. I come from a middle class family, not poor, not rich, but comfortable. My mom bought me lots of name brand clothes, but was always frugal. I can remember how embarassed I'd feel when she bought me Walmart brand clothes and how I just knew the other kids would not consider me part of the "popular" crowd. Once I got out of school, I could've cared less what name brand my clothes were.
Another way to tell was always "birds of a feather flock together". The kids from richer families seemed to stick together, I suppose because their families were more on the same "level" so they socialized with each other.
I also learned that the families I once thought were the most wealthy financially, were in fact, up to their eyeballs in debt and unable to pay their bills.
"Be what you're looking for."
"The next time you're thinking of kicking someone when they're down, offer them your hand and help them back up instead."
Another way you knew was the rich kids never had jobs throughout high school, where the ones who weren't so rich did. I had a job since I was 15. The rich kids also drove their parents vehicles.
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
Clothes were big. I come from a "richy rich" city but in the poorer part of this city so I am not well off. I was never raised with extra income, we had times with no heat in the winter and no hot water. But you go to the other side of town and there are a plethora of 2+ million dollar homes owned by 30 year old couples. When I was in school you knew someone was well off by their style. Their clothes gave it away but it was mostly the way they talked. "Our family has a condo in Hawaii", "we go on vacation to places like Africa every year", "my dad buys a new vehicle every 5 years we just got an Escalade"....that type of stuff.
There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.
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