Okay ladies, so if you are anything like me, your children grown, and healthy and happy but.... I am in need of something of my own. A hobbie, an interest, something that takes me to a place that is all mine, that is rewarding, satisfying and helps inhance who I am and self growth. Does anyone relate to what I am saying here? The question is what is that? "They" say to find something you love and do it. I love so many things. I also would love to find that something that also helps me loose weight and get fit. I already am a gym memeber and in good shape but need something to boost me. Am I asking too much. Does anyone out there have any suggestions or has had this experience and succeeded?
Can we start a conversation with this? Details, ideas should come as we go back and forth with others.. I can't be alone here..
Looking forward to chatting..
Jackdot

Oh you are not alone sweetheart!! My children are not quite grown but I forsee your problem in my future. I have tried doing different things but have not found that one thing that keeps my interest.. I am single so I do singles events to meet others with the same interest. I know how this will sound but recently joined the wine club and we meet once a week for a wine tasting, summer cooking events and last week we did a tequila sampling.. Try looking in your local paper for events.. Good luck and let me know if you find anything exciting...

J.dot,

what other things do you like to do in your spare time?
Just give yourself a moment and think about that. Then write down those things.

Now, consider how you can develop that into something as meaningful as you want it to be.
You may even go into business for yourself -- just with the hobby you have.
Think of the possibilities...

Have You Considered Spending Time With God? Only God Can Fill The Gaps That We Have In Our Life No Matter How Big Or Small. If You're Not A Church Going Person Its Fine. Start By Getting Some Tapes And Reading The Bible And Finding Out Who God Says That You Are...what You Can Do...and The Blessings Of Serving Him. Good Luck.

You are not alone here, we are all friends here. Whenever I feel lonely, I listen to music and try to forget everything which result in a simply world for me with full of music...