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    So we just found out that a check we were relying on might not even come! It was supposed to pay off my dress, pay the caterer, and pay for our honeymoon.

    If it doesn't come, we won't be able to do anything we wanted to do. I'm so stressed now because this was supposed to be a guaranteed check, and we were depending on it to pay off the wedding. What am I supposed to do now?

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    Could you pay for it via finance?

    Never rely on money you don't physically have, even if it is 'guarenteed'
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    It was a government check for his discharge, though. I'm really frustrated...it's still coming but it might not be here on time. I don't want to finance, because I have a hard enough time keeping up with current bills.

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    Do you have any family or friends who can lend you some or all of the money?
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    No. It seems we may be screwed! Right now, we're just going to try to save up what little money we can and I'm going to try to pick up a couple of jobs through a temp agency.

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    When is the Wedding ?
    And how late will the Check be ( estimated ) ?

    There are several ways to get Short term loans, Like Payday loans, some are up to 45 or 60 days to pay off.
    Also there are Personal Loans from the bank. If you guys take in Proof he has a Check coming from the Military, It's like an Secured loan.

    You'll have to pay interest, but if you make sure you pay off the Loan as soon as the check comes in , then it will also establish a good Credit rating with whomever you do the loan with .


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    BG exactly our train of thought. We are heading to the bank Saturday.

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