Any sex positions that women don't really enjoy and only do for their guy?

**MitchE** · 08-19-2011 02:37 PM

**-Kya-** · 08-21-2011 01:57 PM

I wont do anything that im not happy with just to please my guy. If im honest, if my boyfriend suggested a position that I wouldnt have wanted to do in a million years, and I did it just to please him, He would be pretty mad. ha! Also, if i was doing a sex position that i really didnt enjoy, he would know about it.

**Hopeless Dork** · 08-21-2011 04:16 PM

Theres honestly nothing I don't enjoy that he finds exciting, him being excited is enjoyable for me... some positions and acts feel physically better than others to me but without a doubt I enjoy any act we do on at least the fundamental level of its pleasing him -- its turning me on.

When I was younger and single and having random frequent flings -- there was nothing I found more annoying than spanking or asking me stupid questions lol. Now, in my committed relationship... i love everything lol. But when some guy i just met was asking me to say his name, or asking me to tell him I liked it... oh i said it, but inside i was cringing or just trying to keep a straight face

So note to guys on one night stands or early in a relationship... just keep it simple and let it naturally take new directions lol.. trying to evoke an artificial animal like connection usually just comes of phony, contrived.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 08-21-2011 04:28 PM

I don't particularly enjoy when he pushes me over to my side like in a lying on your back but with your hips rotated and knees down to one side. He is in the same position he would be if we were in missionary style. It doesn't do a thing for me, but he almost always tries to get me in that position. I can only guess that someone from his past must've really enjoyed that one so he carries on with it thinking all girls will.

I never stay there for longer than a few seconds.

**kristalyn_04** · 08-21-2011 06:32 PM

There really isn't any position I wouldn't be willing to try. I've tried quite a few, and haven't yet found one that I don't enjoy, though some are better than others. I think the only reasons I might not like a certain position is if it was painful or I didn't get any feeling from it.

**BabyGirl** · 08-21-2011 07:15 PM

Hmm, It's been so long sine I've done the " Wild Thing ".... Lol

But I would definitely not be unwilling to at least try an ,other than " Usual " Positions, I.E, Missionary, Doggie, Spooning ,69 at least Once.

If it was painful, then it would be the one time only. If it made me feel Uncomfortable or Threatened , Then No way.

I am not a Contortionist and at age 56 ... Bones and muscles and joints and ligaments only move so much or so far .

The Romance, the Where and When, would make me More inclined to try something He Fantasized about or preferred. But again if Painful, I would just have to explain it was not possible to continue that position.

I was a try anywhere gal when younger .. But Now. Most even in their 30's Just Cringe about their Mom or Dad having Wild Sex ..

**ItsASecret** · 08-24-2011 11:13 PM

I personally do not like on my back with my legs up on his shoulders. I am short, 5'1, my legs are small and I am not flexible (and not going to attempt to be because I loath working out). The whole lack of flexibility makes it hurt, it is not so bad if he has his back straight up and he just holds my legs against his chest but when he starts to get more in the mood he will begin to push his weight slightly more towards me in order to essentially fold me up like a deck chair (the position is actually called that lol). Again, no flexibility so it hurts, my legs burn because of the muscles getting pushed and then my stomach gets scrunched up as soon as he starts pushing forward a bit. He will stop as soon as I say okay no more but yeah definitely that folded up trying to make it like legs by my ears type position....not fun at all.

**jns** · 08-24-2011 11:54 PM

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

I personally do not like on my back with my legs up on his shoulders. I am short, 5'1, my legs are small and I am not flexible (and not going to attempt to be because I loath working out). The whole lack of flexibility makes it hurt, it is not so bad if he has his back straight up and he just holds my legs against his chest but when he starts to get more in the mood he will begin to push his weight slightly more towards me in order to essentially fold me up like a deck chair (the position is actually called that lol). Again, no flexibility so it hurts, my legs burn because of the muscles getting pushed and then my stomach gets scrunched up as soon as he starts pushing forward a bit. He will stop as soon as I say okay no more but yeah definitely that folded up trying to make it like legs by my ears type position....not fun at all.

In addition to scrunching your stomach, such a position puts stress on your lower spine as your pelvis rotates upward. It may be better for you to fold your legs against your chest but slightly to each side so your muscles aren't stretched so much.

**ItsASecret** · 08-25-2011 09:43 AM

It may be better for you to fold your legs against your chest but slightly to each side so your muscles aren't stretched so much.

Done it already. I am not flexible. I cannot put my legs to my chest and then spread them even a bit because it will hurt the muscles on the upper and lower parts of my thigh (feels like a pulling sensation on the muscles). He is also tall, 6'1, and he needs to scooch forward in order to push himself in me, that alone causes me to scrunch a bit. It is really a dumb position made only for people who are flexible or similar in height lol. He likes that rough sort of sex once in a blue moon so in those instances I will say okay we can do it for a bit but not long.

**rcoreyus** · 08-28-2011 11:23 PM

"don't really enjoy" can be interpreted in a lot of ways. If it's "doesn't really do much for me physically, but my partner enjoys it", then I think that is a fine thing to do sometimes. If it is painful / degrading / you really hate it, then you shouldn't.