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  1. 08-21-2011 03:22 AM #1
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    hi everyone
    I want to share my story with you and get some advice on it. Ive dated a guy for 2 weeks and then we try to have sex which never happened because i wasn't ready for it. but my sister's boyfriend and my best friend tried to prove it that im and slept with that guy. my sister supported me through this even she didnt know i've tried it with that guy. so now im done with my best friend but my sister loves his boyfriend and three of us were good friends i knew him as my brother. i dont know what to do with him and how to deal with this situation. he got me to all this mess situation that all of my close friends are talking on my back :O but he still doesnt regret it please help!
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    Do you think therefore that this guy was only after that and has stated he had it?

    I hate that, that happened to me when I was a teenager, 18... And, all I did? Was spend the next 10 years looking sexier and sexier and ignoring him , walked past as if I didnt' see him and one day he came up and apoligised when "he" grew up and in that, I still ignored...He can and has, lived with that for the rest of his life.

    Who do you have to prove anything to? You own you and if others put you down? Let them go and ignore, believe in yourself you know the truth and the truth always comes out eventually trust me...

    Be dignified and tell them " I will not justify gossip that is obviously caused by this man because he lost" ...

    Simply put.

    You know your worth hand on to it..

    Never let anyone bring you down.
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mmwer View Post
    hi everyone
    I want to share my story with you and get some advice on it. Ive dated a guy for 2 weeks and then we try to have sex which never happened because i wasn't ready for it. but my sister's boyfriend and my best friend tried to prove it that im and slept with that guy. my sister supported me through this even she didnt know i've tried it with that guy. so now im done with my best friend but my sister loves his boyfriend and three of us were good friends i knew him as my brother. i dont know what to do with him and how to deal with this situation. he got me to all this mess situation that all of my close friends are talking on my back :O but he still doesnt regret it please help!
    I'm sorry you have this situation. I don't fully understand it, though. Is it that you didn't have sex, but some others are making out like you did?

    Being pressured into having sex it is just wrong. Sex should be between consenting partners at a minimum. It is so much better if you are in love with your sex partner.
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  4. 08-21-2011 12:49 PM #4
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    I'm sorry, but I don't even understand the situation! Are you saying that you didn't sleep with the guy you've been dating for two weeks, so your gay best friend and your sister's bi-sexual boyfriend both seduced the guy you were dating to prove a point to you? I hope you clarify your situation, but it sounds like you need to ditch all the people involved except for your sister of course. I guess you're a teen judging from your post, so I'm sure this seems really awful but you'll get over it.
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