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Ok I'll ask..
What kind of "Bad ', did it seem awkward, too long, too short, Sideways, too sloppy. bad breath, no tongue, not enough tongue ..
Cummon Girlfriend. lets have some Details !! Lol
Bad kisser!
OK... been a while since I've asked for advice from you all...
So... I had a guy friend over yesterday, a fairly new friendship that shows potential to develop into something more. He's shown an interest in me, I'm not quite sure about him yet though, still getting to know him.
Anyway, he kissed me last night, and he sucked at it... I won't get into details unless I'm asked. But he seems like a really nice guy, and I don't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't say anything about it. So my question is... should I try to coach him and give him a shot? or chalk it up to incompatibility and tell him I want to stay friends? Thoughts please and thank you!
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
Ok I'll ask..
What kind of "Bad ', did it seem awkward, too long, too short, Sideways, too sloppy. bad breath, no tongue, not enough tongue ..
Cummon Girlfriend. lets have some Details !! Lol
Oh, alright lol. He was just way too rough, like smooshing our faces together, playfully biting my lip and tongue, rapidly flicking his tongue around in my mouth, rough. That's just not my style/preference, and I think the way a guy kisses is a good indicator to what kind of lover he is. I just couldn't get into it, wasn't a turn-on for me at all, and I'm thinking it's just a compatibility problem, which as you all know could be problematic down the road. So... thoughts?
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
C'mon guys please? I know it seems silly but, I'm really not sure what I should do here. Honest thoughts please, and hugs all around! Thank you
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
well, maybe he was nervous? maybe he's worth a second shot, but i agree with you, kissing like that is no turn on! lol! if he is someone you can establish a relationship with, it might be worth it. if it's all "iffy", i wouldn't stress about it! good luck!!!
just breathe . . .
From your description it seems like the guy was REALLY into it, like ready to get down-and-dirty into it. Not just playful kissing.
If you like him for every other reason, and the only snafu is that he kisses like a walrus, then I would stick it out, and "guide" him in the right direction if he gets too overzealous for your liking during the next make-out session. Perhaps some coaching is all it takes. If not, no harm no foul, you can move on knowing you tried (and at least you'll have a funny story to share
Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
LMAO KM... like a walrus, that's funny.Thanks ladies, I think I will find out if he'd be up for some gentle coaching and see if it gets better. I suppose the poor guy deserves a shot lol.
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
Well... maybe you just turned him on to a " Desperation " and he didn't know what kind of Kiss to give so he just tried to Devour you ? lol
Ok, you can always, kinda lead a convo to back in the Younger Days and talk about yours and his First bf/gf or Kiss. you know when you guys were 15 or 16.
You can bring up ( even if Made up a lil ) some guy who kissed like him, Only don't say that .
Just say, something like , my first kiss was kinda like a Grouping, slobbering , trying to french kiss me kinda kiss.
It really turned me off, but then my next guy that kissed me, was very gentle and sensuous and it really got me thinking of how sweet and calm and gentle he was, He was a guy I really could get into.
I dunno hun, but if you can't stand the Kisses, I'd bet the other that follows, could get a lil rough and uncomfortable.
And You know me well enough Krysta, that I just couldn't Resist this...Lmao
Hahaha... thanks BG, and a great idea.
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
So any update?? Has the kissing improved?
If you smile when no one else is around, you really mean it.
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It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit.--Noel Coward
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