Thread: Penis size compaisions/contests

No. I have never been in that situation. I am average in size and really only care what my wife thinks about it, not other men. Having said that, in my younger days, I have been in situations with other guys and girls (skinny dipping, hot tub etc.) and it is hard not to look and make sure you are comparable.

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

How many compare? All do. Comparison of anything my men/boys happens a lot. They do so with their big trucks, with their game scores, how much food they can eat, who can fart or burp the loudest, who can score the most in hockey, who's team is the best football team, who can take more pain...the list goes on and on with what men like to compare. Penis size is no different, they will compare as a joke quiet often. If someone is smaller than he could be laughed at by his 'bros' because that is the style of some male communication especially at a younger immature age. Then they hit the age of maturity when they can say the number and shrug their shoulders no matter their size because they see it as a number and not some important stat. A lot of men do not care because they understand they should not care. Then there are the always present subset who do care that they could be .0x inches below the "average", make it known, and women essentially say "okay enough, you are fine now stop worrying about it" (they do not mean it in a mean way more in agitated way because the subject simply pops up too much).

However with men penis size becomes a thing of pride, they often do believe bigger is better because everything else in their lives may be quantified by that....the bigger the steak on the plate at dinner the better it is. The more women in the room in skimpy clothes the better, the more violent the hockey game the better. Bigger is often better with them so it would not be uncommon for them to "accidently" measure their penis wrong and add a 1/4 inch. Then there are going to be those who measure, find out they are average but not want to accept that because they truly believe they should be bigger and again measure but add some extra to make themselves feel better. There are also those who could go into it wanting to be "educated", realize they used a tape measure wrong, measure and find out they are smaller than average and end up thinking their life is ruined. It could very well be that some men when they measure could feel a sense of relief if they measured in the correct way and find out they are average sized, but that sense of relief may not be felt by all men. They could be like, K now what. A lot may also not care because they know they are of average size.

We have a radio contest here in Edmonton called the really really hard contest, a bunch of people go through tasks to qualify for large sums of money. One of the mini qualifying contests was "who has the smallest penis in Edmonton". Legit they said "we are tired of hearing about men pretending they have a larger penis than they do and thinking that big means better" so they set up the contest to have a nurse measure and find out, between those who entered, who had the smallest penis. Not the biggest, not the most wide, not the most used and abused....the smallest. Turns out it was some guy who had his penis in the negatives, meaning when he was flaccid it was simply pushed into his stomach because it was not long enough to hang. The crowd loved it, did not laugh, because it took guts to face men and women on the subject and be measured. He was also measured correctly, by a nurse, not by hoping he did it right. In the end it was between him and another person for the total grand prize at the end of the whole really really hard contest. He did not win but the radio station called him up later on and he said he cannot go a day now without having a ton of messages on his home phone saying that it is awesome that he did that and was not embarrassed and that more men should be okay with their size.

It’s a secret:

Thanks for your reply.

Your reply is pretty fascinating, especially about this radio contests. I have never heard of such an event.This is the things I am trying to figure out, would such a contest break the stereotypes if wanting a larger penis. Its sounds like this radio show may have. I would see the guy as pretty internally strong to not care. It reminds me of years ago (again, like 15-20) attending a wet t-shirt contest where a woman with larger breast was clearly winning (based on male cheering) and some women with smaller breasts went up on stage and through her body image confidence wowed the audience. Although I would no longer support such events as a wet t-shirt contest, I still see this woman with smaller breast willing to go up on stage as a person with inner strengths.

Can you tell me – either in the public forum or a private message – more about this contest in Edmonton (is there, for example, a web link you can tell me about). What is the name of the radio and do they have a website?

In my situation, again years ago, my friends and I found it educational (though I did not call it educational back then – I was like 17). Because we were all fairly close friends, there was not a meanness about it and although one person was fairly larger, and another that was smaller (and the rest about the same size), it was obviously that the guy who was fairly larger was not that big of a deal – it was an inch or so.
I think what happens is that many men become sucked into thinking that a 7 incher is so much longer than a 5 incher, or that the thickness of 6 inches is so much bigger than 5 inches. But when you stand and compare – eye-ball-to-eyeball, an extra inch of so is literally not that big of a deal. And I see people who think an extra inch or so as being important are people who psychologically and emotionally lack inner confidence (either in themselves or when desiring such size in others).

But at the same time I think if more men compared, there can always be the danger of someone trying to humiliate another. Beyond this radio contest, can you see other ways where men can compare in educational and self relief settings (not some type of party atmoshere where there is humiliation when a person is smaller)?