Thread: I have a question

Originally Posted by Ravsoma

It's the sex forum...

Who doesn't like sex?

...Oh, that was a horrible thing to say.

Hello Ravsoma-
Exactly! That was exactly my point. Almost everyone likes sex. So where did everyone go in the sex forum, including you? Not to be intrusive. Since I posted this question it seems to have picked-up some again. Unrelated I'm sure. Oh, why would that be a horrible thing for you to say unless you were refering to my rape in a negative way perhaps ( I don't even know if you are even aware of what happened to me via reading my now modified thread)? Please clarify. I've read other posts from you and you don't strike me as a young woman to be that type of a person, so it seems thoughtful but not necessary to explain yourself. I'm not that fragile. Please don't feel the need to censor yourself if this is the case. I disliked the actions of my rapist and I realized that it had nothing to do with sex itself much like any sexual abuse for that matter. For that I am being blessed with possitive progress everyday. Be Blessed!!!

Originally Posted by Ravsoma

It's the sex forum...

Who doesn't like sex?

...Oh, that was a horrible thing to say.

Hello Ravsoma-
My request for clarity was just that and only that. I just wanted to know, that's all. Be Blessed!!!

Originally Posted by Little

Aww Rav, I feel very comfortable talking to you about sex ^-^ (haha, 'cause I'm not an adult at all really. Only 19.) I think it's funny that people are all "OMG SHE'S 16!" and flop out. Just be you ^_^

Hey Little-
Sound advice. I totally agree. No one can be you better than you!

Originally Posted by Ravsoma

T_T I had no idea you went through something like that until now. I only said it was horrible because I usually don't say things like that and mean it. You weren't targeted at all. I'm so sorry.

Oh... I haven't been there in a while because my presence makes some people queasy. They can't talk about sex with a young person WHICH is actually a very positive thing to do.

Hello Ravsoma-
Thank you for your kind words and the apology. As I said before I didn't think and still don't think you have anything to apologize for. It was thoughtful just the same. I agree with Little in that you should just be yourself. You have a very positive attitude in terms of your response. I do understand the age factor for some people. However, you are 16, your threads and posts that I have read seem mature. You are of legal sexual consenting age in some states. If you're having mature discussions (with apropriate conduct) and not being sexually solicited in any way, then it's a close call. I'm pleased some in the forum thought enough to protect or shield you in that way and not attempt to exploit you in any way. That's a really positive thing as well. Did some one actually say this to you?