Thread: Porn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????why????

Go to the Husband/Fiance and have a look there.

believe it or not men sometimes get urges to view these things u can sit down and tell him how u feel in a cool tone and in a cool manner

Originally Posted by sexy thang!!!!!!!

do him u stingy *****

i'm sure she is not in the mood to "do him" when she feels betrayed..remind your husband of his promise and tell him if he feels the urge for sex to come to you, not the computer..some men feel "left out" physically when a newborn enters the picture..

i guess my post is a little confusing now that the former previous post has "disappeared into oblivion"..calling "hurtandunhappy" names is not going to help her present problem..please don't take what was said by another poster personally "hurtandunhappy"..best of luck..

Go to your husband and talk to him. I have been in your situation too. i've been married fo almost 10 years (10 years in may). And I have found magazines and stuff online. I told him how much it hurts me that he essentially wants to look at other women that way. I told him I understand he is a man and have no probs with him looking at women with their clothes ON. But if he wants to see some skin, then come to me and I will strike a pose! My point is talk to him and ask him what exactly is he getting from the pictures that you can't give him.

My son is almost a year old. I have found porn also. Which by the way I find revolting and do not understand why some find it exciting. Having a baby made me not want to engage physically. I felt tired and ran down. By bed time I was in no mood. Men do not feel the same way wth a new baby. Not because they dont care. They do not go through the same physical changes we do. Their sex drive is not hindered in the least, unlike ours. Be honest, tell him how you feel. I was straight foward. I told my husband I did not like porn and knowing he watched it made me want to be with him less. I guess my message is be honest. Talk to him. Find out why he enjoys it. Talk things out.