Thread: Single And Nervous

LISTEN! DON'T DO IT! RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!

I'm completely serious. Just leave him and don't go on anymore dates with this guy.

Is It That He Has Been Pushy Or That He Has Had Unprotected Sex.

Both. He shouldn't push you if you say no; it means he doesn't respect you and is likely to "get what he wants" and then run.

...because many men wouldn't tell you that they've had unprotected sex with ex-girlfriends. I agree that pressuring you for sex on the first date says that this man doesn't respect you. Sounds like being with him puts you in a dangerous situation. You do have to assume that "everyone's having it" until you are familiar with the person, because 'you just don't know'. If you're saying that all of the men you date want sex on the first date, maybe you need to look at the men that you've been dating...maybe there's some sort of pattern? I don't know...just a thought. But there are men out there who are willing to take it slow. Shame that these 'sex fiends' have to overshadow them.

You need to start dating nicer men.

I think it helps if you share an interest / hobby / sport, and that is the focus of the relationship, not sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is fine, but I don't think it should be the main focus.

Find something you like to do, then find men to do it with. Then, when you know them start dating.

Dont settle for a guy just because you feel pressured. I shouldn't be the one to speak because its not like i've found mr. Right either, but dont settle. You should be with someone that respects you and is willing to wait if thats what you want.
you might feel a bit gad about it now, but i guarantee you when you find the right guy it will have been completely worth it. Good luck!