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Old 10-19-2007, 02:46 PM
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It is nice to see you're keeping your sense of humour. It was not my intention to put you in the hot seat. I knew people had issues with you about what happened however, I didn't know to what extent. I must say you handled it with grace for the most part. You took most of it in and didn't lash out/back. I just thought that you would get the same forgiveness and understanding that GB and HD received when they apologized. Then we could all move forward. I believe the intended goal is realized. It just took an unexpected route. Still....it is good to have it all out there and dealt with. I hope that you and I can still be cool. If not now....perhaps in time.
we're fine. i like the hotseat. i have to be honest - this is all very funny to me. and i've been biting my tongue with all the great, wisea*s remarks that this thread has been soliciting of me.

if no one had issues with me, i wouldn't have communicated my point very well.

though i do think the hotdogg & whilhelm show was very entertaining.

i'm just glad nobody discovered i'm really a woman.

in drag.
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Old 10-19-2007, 04:31 PM
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What I like so much about this site, contra other MBs
(specifically other Women's Message Boards) is the
absence, (in the most part) of the personal attack.

On another MB, which focused on adultery, I was
responding in my usual style, when some one made
a rather unnecessary post, and I skipped over it.

Subsequently; (and I am not making this up)
she makes another post attacking me for
not answering her post.

I responded with the fact that I am not paid to
respond to posts and can pick and choose.

Why did I bother?

Another post attacking me for the same
reason.

Well, leave the kennel to Lassie.

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Old 10-19-2007, 06:05 PM
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Ahhh. We got the Admins in here.

Well, now everyone knows what's up. -shrugs-

Last edited by Ravsoma; 10-19-2007 at 06:10 PM. Reason: Um.. I forgot.
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I agree with you 100% on this. I have had a similar situation. Probably more of a hurtful happening. At a different Board I had posted on, three people had not only duel names but the opportunity to pose as "guests" and ripped me apart. Not because of my posts which were knowledgeable and helpful but because they found out my age and insisted that a woman of my age could not be who I was. They did a number on me that I will never forget. They are gone but what they said to me stays......
forget what was said to you on the other message boards "caroline"..they were just trying to get under someone's skin and they picked you..they don't even know you..my impressions of you from what i have read is that you are somewhat "older" (so what), you love sex and your husband equally..i have never read anything that you have posted that would tell me that you would be nothing but a good friend..
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Old 10-21-2007, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by kaylar View Post
What I like so much about this site, contra other MBs
(specifically other Women's Message Boards) is the
absence, (in the most part) of the personal attack.

On another MB, which focused on adultery, I was
responding in my usual style, when some one made
a rather unnecessary post, and I skipped over it.

Subsequently; (and I am not making this up)
she makes another post attacking me for
not answering her post.

I responded with the fact that I am not paid to
respond to posts and can pick and choose.

Kaylar,


Why did I bother?

Another post attacking me for the same
reason.

Well, leave the kennel to Lassie.
Kaylar, You are wise and I admire the way you handle everything! Anybody who intentionally goes out of their way to antagonize someone else particularly by utilizing "Duals" the way hotdogg, AKA the dude, AKA zoezoe did, I "write off" as being mentally ill with multiple personality disorders and or schizophrenic!
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Old 10-21-2007, 04:39 PM
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I agree with you 100% on this. I have had a similar situation. Probably more of a hurtful happening. At a different Board I had posted on, three people had not only duel names but the opportunity to pose as "guests" and ripped me apart. Not because of my posts which were knowledgeable and helpful but because they found out my age and insisted that a woman of my age could not be who I was. They did a number on me that I will never forget. They are gone but what they said to me stays......
Hi Caroline,

That is awful, the experience you had. You seem like a sincere person and nobody deserves to be treated, and verbally attacked as you were. I like this message board because it is monitored quite well.
Anyway my views are as follows:

Anybody who intentionally goes out of their way to antagonize someone else particularly by utilizing "Duals" the way hotdogg, AKA the dude, AKA zoezoe did, I "write off" as being mentally ill with multiple personality disorders and or schizophrenic!

If I "write these type of people off" and ignore them, then they will not bother me! I like communicating with positive people, not the negative people such as hotdogg aka dude aka zoezoe. Positive responses help me "get through the day"

G-D Bless!

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forget what was said to you on the other message boards "caroline"..they were just trying to get under someone's skin and they picked you..they don't even know you..my impressions of you from what i have read is that you are somewhat "older" (so what), you love sex and your husband equally..i have never read anything that you have posted that would tell me that you would be nothing but a good friend..
Hello Caroline-
I agree with this post that dr.mansveiw addressed to you. I have been in a somewhat similar situation but, I was ganged up on for a different reason. Some people don't even need a reason, they'll make one up just so they can try and make some else as miserable as they are. If it was not your age then it would be something else. Like your culture, your race, your religion, your gender, or the color of your socks, perhaps even your shoe size. You're in good company now.
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