I just noticed that Hotdogg is banned from this site, I wonder why, she made an apology thread, which was very brave of her.

Could someone explain why and what is going on?

I think it would be best to let sleeping dogs lie... Literally. Don't get into it. It's not worth the time. It might just start up a fight and I would love if this forum was a happy place for once... So would a lot of people.

Also, why is this in the "Sex" subforum?

Hello housewife-

First I would like to express how much I respect you. Only a special person can forgive....truly forgive to the point they are willing to except a sincere apology, move past the issue, and question the consequences for the other person.

You are brave. You posted a question that many of us have asked to ourselves and wanted to discuss (I know I have) but most of us dared not to initiate this thread. Perhaps with concern as to how others will react, because no one wants to be the source of more conflict right now. You have reinforced my respect for you. As long as this discussion remains respectful, this is a healthly step towards salvaging and moving forward for our beloved forum. Although this thread will probably be moved....it warrants a response. To ask, to answer, to productively discuss issues in a possitive respectful way is what this forum is for.

So, I submit....we take this opportunity and utilize this thread for the good.

I think if we were supposed to know we would have known already... Some of us already know.

It's sad to lose someone, but there does come a time when you just let things go and move on. The forum will get passed this.

No one felt sad when "GentileBen" was banned. No more stewing over sadness.

The creation of 'Duals' is why she was banned.

On many MBs one person is supposed to have one identity.
When a member had three identities this allows one to post,
two to agree, and it becomes a dishonest representation of
the views of the general population.

Hello Ravsoma-
I did not openly expressed my feelings about GB's departure. I wouldn't say I'm sad about GB or HD being banned. However, there is a sense of loss. I felt that same loss in your absence, Rav. Yes, perhaps the forum will go on without them. However, if it raises concerns with some of us then it is a legitimate subject to be discussed. That discussion may not be for everyone if they are not affected. To obstruct the discussion for those who do want to discuss this issue is not productive.

Ravsoma, why did you assume that this thread would start up a fight?
that was not my intention at all, I thought that was not fair to ban a silver contributer.
and the reason I created this thread in the "sex" section , is because this is where hotdogg used to post.

I would like to ask the admin to give Hotdogg another chance.
please support with me this thought to make it stronger and bring back such a powerful member.