Best orgasms

**SorridLives** · 08-05-2008 12:00 AM

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Hmmm, I would probably say that oral after a lot of sex provides the strongest orgasm... Essentially though I'd say it's more about the mental triggers than the physical, to make an amazing orgasm.

Oral after a lot of sex? Do you mean intercourse then oral sometime soon afterward?

Originally Posted by Fire(m)

2) Around women, men are more likely to answer questions about their sexuality and specifically what their likes and dislikes are under 3 conditions:
a. The condition that there is likely to be some fulfillment of what is discussed (ie. he's with a woman who could potentially give him some, or give him some good advice to get to that end with his woman, etc.)
b. If he's just proud of himself and feels like sharing, or thinks he has a very specialized technique to use, or something to offer that others are missing.
c. If he thinks he can learn something that will help out later.

Ladies, I think this pretty much sums up why a guy would share in the discussion of sexuality. Anyone who has more to add go ahead. I just think we men are pretty simple creatures and not too hard to figure out.

Cheers.

Hmm. I agree on some of it. I don't think men are that simple though! LOL. I think that you *believe* you are simple but you are usually not. It has taken me a long time to figure out that my man is "simple". The *simple* part about it is that he is a man (like most or many) and loves beautiful women....all beautiful women....and wants to look on as many of them as possible and he also likes to fantasize about them, when he finds them particularly attractive.
The complicated part is that women don't think the same way a lot of the time. Women don't always fantasize about other people outside the relationship. I would venture to guess that *most* women don't when they are in love. I am *not* saying all women, but I am saying most and about 90% of the time. We may have a stray moment once in a blue moon, where men probably think of other women (not their lover) almost daily! That could be a fantasy of seeing an upskirt on a co-worker to fantasizing about doing the deed in the closet with the same woman or some other woman he works with, etc.
But I digress and am off topic! LOL! Sorry....
Anyway....I think a lot of people don't want to talk frankly about how they get their best orgasms because sometimes it may not be what their lover wants to hear...

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Dam..n I tried to bump it up, honest, I couldn't find the one i wanted though

so i clicked on second best and it said "you have already voted" hahaha, must have been number 3 SorridLives because i forgot, and i don't have dementure, hehe.

#3?? I don't think I numbered them! LOL!

Okay....intercourse- in various positions, seems to be #1, with oral a close second....and masturbation third.

C · 08-05-2008 08:15 AM

In my opinion the best orgasm is not listed...But saying this maybe again this comes with age....The years of loving and enjoying your lover's body...The appreciation of the place that he has taken you and you have taken him....The lust enjoyed between two people with both showing the gleam in their eye of this "dirty pleasure" that they enjoy....It is called the afterwards....

This happens when you have ejaculated like mad and he has drank all of you and he has either cum or held it back for another time as he often does....But there is always just a hint of the man in the taste so it is awesome...It is after you have pulled out of him and lay in each other's arms that this stirring is found in you....Then you raise up and look at him as you crawl down to his most precious part....Then you clean off your lover with your tongue and swallow all that you were and all that he is....Lick his balls and raise up his most delicate parts....Then as you look up at your lover looking at you, you see a stirring that awakens both of you.....Twice this awakening has lead to another session of hot full sex....Once cowgirl and once doggy...Somehow I have found the perfect timing to perfect our sex act.....I love it.....Then the orgasm to beat all happens....

Of course, this is only my orgasm and I will admit it takes much passion, years and love....But it is hot....

**anonymouswhitefemale** · 08-05-2008 08:54 AM

Originally Posted by SorridLives

Oral after a lot of sex? Do you mean intercourse then oral sometime soon afterward?

Immediately afterwards.... The oral bring the orgasm.

**miffed23** · 08-05-2008 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by Phoebee

I've never cared for "doggy" I really like the face to face part of sex. Otherwise I feel like used in a not nice way... Degraded I guess.

Thats an interesting way to look at it... i guess doggy is an animal-like position... but then thats why i like it so much... i dont find it degrading though.

**SorridLives** · 08-05-2008 11:06 PM

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Immediately afterwards.... The oral bring the orgasm.

Okay, gotcha. They do that a lot in porn. Funny, my husband never does that or asks for that. Oral is definitely a 'not even close second' to orgasming from intercourse for my husband.