Hi Muskitto,

Yes my Husband and I do have a very active and wild life and that is why I married him because he wanted me to expand my horizons and enjoy life to the fullest.

My previous partners would have been too jealous or insecure to do what we have done together.

I dont know how my Hubby would handle me having a gangbang but it is a big fantasy of mine that perhaps should stay just that.

Have fun and dont forget to live while you can because tommorow may not come along!

[quote=muskito;48802]Hi Funlovinglady,

Hi Owlhunter,

For the moment I am playing with the thought of introducing a little bondage in our play. I have not talked to my partner about this, because I am not sure yet how far I want to go down that path. (No comments please, hey I am a careful person)

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We do some bondage, just really getting into to it. Very light bondage.

You absolutely have to have a "safe word." We do and it works great. And actually we use it fairly often. But almost always because whatever is happening is too intense (NOT painful) for the other one to stand.

With a safe word, and the trust of your partner you can "push a lot of limits" and both feel comfortable that you are not going so far as to damage the persons body, mind or the relationship.

Guess where I live? Ha Ha.

Beware of course that once you gag someone, they can no longer say a safe word....

I got caught out once by that, she was in pain in a certain position and it took me a little while to notice, pleasure and pain are often similar on the outside, so always be vigilant and take care of your partner!