Do you have a wish list for an ideal partner?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-14-2008 12:57 AM

Originally Posted by OG612

The "previous poster" I was referring to was actually 3 or 4 behind yours. But, if you want to get technical, you were a "previous poster."

But... since you're thread-jackin' here... let's delve in to your situation. Shall we?

You're talking about "opposites attracting" and you refer to him as "tall, dark, handsome, intelligent." Should I even bother?

And as far being shy goes... it's no big deal. Just talk. Keep changing conversational topics until you find something the both of you can talk about. If there's an "awkward silence" tell a joke! Make a joke! Say somethin' silly! As long as you're comfortable with yourself, you should be able to converse with people naturally and organically.

Anyways, I've got my PM Box set up now. Let me know how your date goes. I'll check in with you wallabies later. Ciao.

OG

Thread jacking - My thread? mmm... Ok..

I personally feel that intelligence is needed. You can be shy but if you can't hold a conversation on various topics, laugh, it's a bit difficult in the communication department. Opposites don't attract in that respect.

Total social butterfly verses, shy around complete strangers do attract as oppostites go, one has the spot light, the other is happy not to..

Natural is the only way to be... If you can't be yourself and show yourself as whom you are, no one gets to see the real you and why be someone that you are not?

Agreed.

As for sharing what happens, well i may very well do so considering this thread is based on what people may look for now compared to before....

Happy kangarooing, the meat is better as well, we don't eat Wallabies here no way....

**Muskitos** · 08-14-2008 01:15 AM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Haha, so now your calling me a "previous poster" is that your way of getting even?

Actually I have a date next week and guess what? He's 6 foot 3, dark hair, they say oposites attrack, he has a sense of humor but I feel in a Social gathering a tad shy whilst off course I'm so shy as you can all tell.

But, will be interesting to put the theory to the test... Tall, dark, handsome, brains, see what else i can derive at that meet.

CW

Hi CW,

You shy??? ha ha.

Anyway your date sounds great, makes me jealous.
Hey keep us posted on how it went, will you!

Enjoy

Originally Posted by OG612

Oh, CW... how dare you group all of us dogs together!

To answer the previous poster's question, my "ideal" partner would be someone that fits this criteria.

I need to find her attractive. Not what society deems attractive. If I were a slave to society, I'd want someone that looks like Paris Hilton. :blech: And what I find attractive is pretty broad.

Height/Weight proportionate. If you're 200 pounds, please be six-foot tall

Knows her way around a kitchen, and has no problem showing me what to do in there.

Large sexual appetite, but not a nymphomaniac.

That would be my ideal mate. But, as we know, nothing's perfect.

OG

Hi OG612,

you seam pretty much to confirm what I expected : food and sex are the ones! LOL

**Livelaughlove** · 08-14-2008 07:27 AM

Originally Posted by OG612

But, as we know, nothing's perfect.

OG

BULL. I'm perfect

Anyway I believe the concept of a perfect mate is not possible. Dynamics change. People get older and society evolves. As you grow and go through different stages in life understand that your outlook on the perfect man/girl changes as well.

A year ago I thought a Model body was all i wanted in needed in a female. As I grew and became more social I noticed that a perfect body is not the only thing I want because I had a lady friend that could be a model but she was too insecure and boring to keep my attention. She agreed to everything and when I wanted her to make an choice she would put it back on me.

Now I want a girl who is Intelligent, sophisticated, Fun, has the ability to let loose without caring what others think, attractive to me, love to make me laugh.

To answer a previous poster the men you desire dont just want sex & food. The men with value will say No to women more then they say yes. Your average man goes through life taking whatever he can get. I know thats a mean statement but its the truth.

So it depends on your standards, what you believe you deserve.

Hope this helps

Live laugh and love

**OG612** · 08-14-2008 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by Muskitos

Hi OG612,

you seam pretty much to confirm what I expected : food and sex are the ones! LOL

Food and sex are important to men and I'll tell you why.

I can't afford to be going out to the Macaroni Grill every night.

But if she can cook, she can teach me to cook. That way we can take turns in the kitchen on who prepares dinner.

Sex is important because it is the best way for two people to bond and grow closer together. I could reference the ANR thread that was somewhere on this board before, but that is still sexual in nature. If two people are going to be spending a lifetime together, it is important to keep the sexuality there to help keep the love. I've noticed that couples that quit sleeping together tend to grow distant with each other.

OG

**ThexMrs** · 06-06-2009 02:21 AM

I want a man who is family oriented. He must treat his relatives well and treat my family well.

A good father and a good role model to his children. He definitely needs to set a good example. Devoted to me and our children.

Intelligence is a must as well as spelling and grammar which I think kind of falls under the same catergory.

Someone who knows me inside and out and knows that when I say I don't want to talk about it, that I really do and needs to not let it go.

Someone who knows my sounds and what each one means.

One who is slow to anger and fast to forgive. Doesn't hold grudges.

Understanding and humorous.

Kind to everyone. Treats everyone equally.

Is passionate about something other than me.

Loves football and I do mean PRO! College is good as well.

Who likes to read and I don't just mean Maxim.

Considerate and well mannered.

Will always tell me how he feels and will not bottle things up.

Ambitious and goal oriented.

Caring and loving of course.

Loves me inside and out, flaws included.

A happy demeanor.

A good provider but doesn't have to have the best of everything. Materialism is a turn off.

Someone who will tell me dinner is delicious when I've burned it black.

Who is always going to support me in my ventures.

Knows that I will cry for no reason at times.

A cuddler.

Will never stray or ever think about it.

A man who will stand up for me.