bairn
Junior Member

yeh i am really glad that i am getting going with the put up or shut up. but it still hurts like .. i dont think i will ever get her off our backs..
thats not good that you got hurt a long time ago. life throws some horrible stuff at you.
i will mail you after i have been to the solicitor.. as i am going to ask if the solicitor can do the birth certificate for us. if not then i will do it myself. i will let you know how i get on tho. xx

Hi, Glad to hear you are taking steps to resolve this. Hopefully putting her in a put up or shut up situation will get her to back off. My hurt was a long time ago, I've dealt with a couple of men who were unfaithful and have long since learned to do a better job of rolling with the punches.

Life throws us all sorts of stuff, some we want to catch and some is better ducked. I've been hit a few times myself. You have to stay your course and don't let the nut case get to you!