baja
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I want to be close to him cause the distance is killing me. I cant wait for us to meet...is it worth it? is there something wrong with me..why cant I have real happiness,a man who will love me for real..I am real. I dont understand..is it me? or he is just some kinda pervert or serial online dater...I am so hurt and confused.Help me.

(continuation)I am hurting..I cant stand with all the stress that this brings .I love him,trusted him more than I did to anyone. I am not a player ,I guess you know that right? I am so hurt. I dont know what to do now.I love him but I cant tolerate cheating , if he is cheating...obviously no men will never admit that that they cheated. Help me..I am hurting and confused. How will I make this work,should I go on..or leave but its painful..I am tired of being in relationships and just break up in the end. I love him but I want all honesty ...no cheating..I want to be with him..but I know going to states is never easy..I dont know if i can stand another heart break..I don't know.

(continuation) He is making me believe that he is fast asleep, and what he is still chatting with others.I saw him ,having lots of accounts in online dating..but I tried to put that aside cause that's his past.He said he never checked them anyway..but at some instance the account in that where we met is active still and has been checked like daily.I discovered like more than a month ago that he has a Filipina chatmate, he met before long before he met me. They are friends as they both claimed and I have no more issues with that anymore.I don't know where to put myself now. It hurts that you are being honest ,and loyal but seems like he is still looking around.I don't want to lose him, I don't want to believe that he is makin a fool out of me, just playing around..not true .

sorry I am really confused..I will never understand the games of online dating cause I have always been true...how else would you explain this ? You do hot sex with him..you go all the way which I never did in my whole life..and I did now cause I love him...He said he do love me..but just want to take things slow and don't want serious relationship cause the children are still young. I ...for Christ's sake took all these even the thought that I won't have my own children cause he doesn't want anymore..cause I love him.I am willing to sacrifice even my own desires. Just today,he started his new part time job, we chatted and had sex. He said he is beat and will go to bed..he signed out..I did too cause I was thinking that he needed to rest.I signed in again,cause I need to asked my freind something..I saw him online.What does that mean?

hahaha..yeah..lol..wow..yeah..not again right? not another drama lol..I will catch you sometime..in messenger..lol..I am not sure though if I still have you there..I'll just send you an invite..lol funny..what's with the name?baja.lol.I emailed you last time ..I just don't know if you received that..Anyway.. Thanks! talk to you soon! Nice meeting you !!!! hahahhahaha

hey,it's you..and it's me..apple .sorry.. i didn't know that it's you.lol..I don't see your profile picture..I am so sorry..I didn't mean to bother you..anyway..thanks..I am still using the same email..appcorr but I guess enough that you listen..I didn't mean to share with you another drama..lol..thanks!

what? svtc0bra64? sounds familiar to me...I have a friend with that same account name...sorry,I am having trouble loading pics nor profile pics so I don't see your profile pic in that matter..in any case..since you have that account name there..are you ken?bukauski? anyway..thanks.

Sarah, based on what you shared it definitely sounds like he isn't as serious as you are about the relationship. Since you haven't met in person, I would caution against getting your hopes too high especially considering how he is maintaining some distance. We can talk more when we're both online, but I would say keep your eyes open and trust your instincts. How long have you two been communicating?

( continuation) We still talk, like the way we do before..we get intimate online..we share a lot of things..the only thing is everything is online because we are world's apart. i love him,I feel that he do too but I am not so sure where this should lead to..I don't know ifI have to just go with the flow or stop communicating with him..I am really confused..I am happy with him but the way he wants " our" arrangement or relationship is not clear to me.

I hope this won't take too much of your time..I just want someone to talk to..I am confused. I met a man in a dating site,and we got along well.He said he loves me I felt that I do too.So we were in a way "in a relationship" though we haven't meet. We're talking about me going to his country and getting married Until such time that I saw a new friend in his fb account which according to him " a friend" but he met that on a dating site too long before he met me .. It's just that , he wants us to go slow,take our time. I felt that, yes we need that too..go slow cause everything happened so fast.but now ,whenever I tell him things about relationships,he seemed to always point to me that he doesnt one any at this time.not until his children are grown ups..