Looks like I've been locked out again. Fascinating.
I was saying hi earlier - I really just came back when I saw the horrible advice that girl was getting in her "addicted fiance" thread. I just couldn't stand by & watch.
I get a sense of urgency when I see people actually forming opinions about themselves & their sexuality based on the lies that porn propagates.
At any rate - if I'm still here later we'll talk if you like.
Interestingly, right before I was banned before one of the moderators used my IP address to try to determine where I worked - and threatened to send an anonymous letter telling my employer I was participating in a website that posted topics related to sex, etc - believing that would do me some harm. She believed I was bullying anon, and felt she would bully me in return.
When it was apparent I had nothing to hide, the wind left her sails - and almost immediately I was banned.
