I am a business woman, mother and grandmother. 49 years old, in the middle of menopause and it is as far as |I am concerned, HORRIBLE. However, I function each and every day, but I battle in my mind. I wish all it was, was the hot flashes, which are quite humerous!! |My mind is deteriorating, forgetful beyond belief, paranoid, insecure, and panick attacks. I suppose I might be losing my mind and going crazy. It will be an absolute miracle if I am still married after 21 years in the coming year!!!! My spouse has just about had it up to his neck!!!