Dave
Junior Member

Dave,

Here is the site...hope it helps.

Dealing with your or your spouse's sexual past - Marriage & Intimacy - Helium

That was real sweet, thanks for dropping by.. You know Huntersmom91107, really hit the nail on the head..x

Dave... Waiting now-a-days is alot harder than it used to be. I waited until I was 17. It would have been longer, but I was raped several times and had nothing to care about. My past is a story in itself...
Youre question however, has nothing to do with my past. I think that it's great that you are saving yourself. But when it comes to who you love... It shouldnt matter how many men she has been with. The great thing is that now, she is with you. If you love her for her it should work out.

Another way to look at it. Ok... Lets say that it works out... You'll know that yes, she may have been with 6 guys, but she PICKED you...

I think that sex is sex. But making LOVE... Actually taking the time to pleasure someone that you care about the way that THEY want it.
And they are willing to do the same for you...

Good luck with what you are looking for. And when you do it the first time... Make it special.