elsa_niloo

well I do not blame you. Lack of communication is a problem we had for along time. He was always trying to impress me rather than telling me what is going on.
I do admit that he has his share of faults but he is loyal and i think that as long as he is loyal and honest about his love for me, we can make it.
He is not a bad person, but he doesn't know how a married life works, neither do I.

We try everyday; however, lately he has gotten alot better and we are working out our finances together. I am looking for a job and hoping to help him out before going back to school.

I guess I sounded pretty ruff, wasn't trying to be mean, just I was a little upset at him and felt he was taking advantage of you. I do tho, commend you for wanting to work it out, I agree you should,

With pleasure sweet... very much so. x

well we are really really trying to work it out for now.

thank you, your support means alot to me

You have my sympathy, I understand the situation you are in (as I posted earlier, I'm in a similar one). I wish I could offer some advice, but at least you can know that there are quit a few miserable people in a similar spot.
take care
Richard Cory