Hi emily100, I came across your post from last February about penetration issues. For sake of full disclosure, I should let you know that I'm a man, and I've encountered a very similar, almost eerily similar problem, and I just wanted to see if things ended up working out for you in the end. My girlfriend, despite having been with other guys before, has been extremely tight, and there's the additional problem that if things don't work out on the first go, I tend to go soft. Pretty awful combination. The only difference between our situation and yours, though, is that I don't have any qualms about trying to please her orally. Needless to say, it's put a strain on things. Well, maybe not so much for her, but definitely for me. I was extremely relieved to come across your post and wanted to see if you might have any tips/advice for dealing with the situation. Thank you so much for sharing your story with a wider audience!
