I am happy to find this site(Womans-Health) I am becoming so insecure,lack of sefl confidence after i got pregnant and having a baby. I know the reason why but after resolving the ff issues: pregnant hubby no desire of sex, hormonal changes as hubby felt the same way, taking care of the house.hubby and child now are all ok after talking,finding solutions and going away for awhile to be having space to eachother and to think properly and sorting things, until the moment of getting back the sex desired for myself though he also has the same, until this moment we are ok, and just suddenly he again the same happens like he cant initiate or asks me openly that he needs me. He before are not like this, he always finds moment to make us do things in the bedroom even if i dont have desire sometimes at the earliest after we married. But now after the preggo issue my libido or sex desire comesback this probs happens-now i am sexually desperate or frustrated as i call it.