hurtsobad
Junior Member

Hi hurtsobad,
I noticed your message to Claret about having issues with the human verification for posting. The issue has been brought to my attention and I will be shutting off that requirement in about five minutes. You should have no problem posting then! If you have any problems in the future, you can leave a message on my page, email me, or use the contact form. We are always happy to help!

Hi hurtsobad - firstly if you want to post a message and garner the largest amount of information, advise and/or just plain someone to speak with what you have to do is find your way around the forums. It would appear that you are posting about a relationship issue with your grown children so this could go under a Family heading or General heading. All you have to to is click on whatever heading you feel you want (from the main page) and from there create a new posting. You'll find lots of friendship, advise and people to commisurate with you.

If you'd like to e-mail me, click on my name (Claret) and go to my information on the member Listing page. I'd be happy to talk (chat) with you either through the forum or privately.

Claret

My boys, men with wives and children, feel that I am not giving them enough attention. They feel I spend too much time with freinds, sports, local events and boyfreind. And no, it is not all about the boyfreind. In fact, they have told me he is just a replacement for the time I was spending with my freind who, by the way, let me live with her when I left my husband three years ago and not to mention she is my business partner. I live 1.5 hours away from one son and 5 hours away from the other. I was present for the birth of both boys and babysat while the granddaughter was being born. I have drove to their homes to help with childcare many times while they have entered my home less than five times in thirteen years. Sadly, my eldest son has said that I cannot see the grandchildren unless I am willing to spend more time with them. He does not want me walking in and out of their lives merely as a visitor. I cry myself to sleep almost every night and not sure how to cope.