Jenny123
Junior Member

Passion,
Long time, no talk.......How have you been? I really hope everythng is falling into place, please respond, let me know how you are doing.

Hi Jenny, good to hear that you are doing well in your marriage. I am so happy for you. YOu will soon find a job as long as you are happy with your family everything else will fall into its place. I am doing well, living my life as best as I can. I am trying to move forward but it still is hard especially when I see him with the other woman from time to time. That bums me out. I have made a decision to stop! stop hiding and going out to places I used to go to and not let fear of seeing him with her stop me from doing things that I love. I am so tired of thinking about him, still can't go on with a whole day without thinking about him. But life goes on... Thank you for thinking about me. I wish you the best and hope that you still keep in contact with me. Take care and talk to you soon.

I still spend a lot of time with my friends but to be honest with you I still feel lonely and empty inside and I still can't find the place where I belong. Hopefully this feelings soon will end because I am getting so tired of them. Well thank you for wondering about me. I am so happy for you and still have hope that there are men out there that care about their families. I wish all the best for you and your family. Please keep in touch. Take care Jenny

Hi Jenny,

It's great hearing from you. I was also wondering how you were doing. I am so happy for you that things are going well. I understand that asking all of those questions probably hurt but maybe that will also help you heal and then move on with your relationship with your husband. I am doing better accepting reality. HOwever, I still have my moments there not as intense but I still feel sadness. I do still wake up in the morning thinking about him and going to sleep with him on my mind. Its just that it all happen so fast. Fifteen years ended in a couple of months and that is just plain painful to me. Although I am doing better I am now able to concentrate at work.

Hi Jenny,

Hope all is well with you. I am really happy that things seem to be working our for you. Keep doing what you were doing for yourself. I wish you all the best..... I continue to deal day by day my situation I just wish that one day all of this ugly and empty feelings fade away and wish that one day I will have a special person again in my life one that I can share my dreams and my love with. I miss being a wife, Jenny. I miss my home and my life.... I have to learn to live by myself now, I never wanted this I had made so many plans with my husband but all of that went to the trash and now I need to learn to do new ones.

I don't wish him any bad but could he at least think of me during the time that he gets good news about his art installations after all I was the one there helping him and supporting him. Jenny, what you are going through is very difficult especially because you have to see him because of your children. Keep on showing him that you will make it without him, Keep on living, keep on doing great things and being great. Keep on living for yourself and your children because one day you will find someone amazing that does want to be part of your life. one good friend told me what goes down must come up. It will be your turn.....soon

Hi Jenny,

Several of my friends have told me that a man does not like to see their ex's with other men that although it was their decision to leave they still want to feel important in their lives. His crying to you did that make you feel any better for the situation in which he put you through? I dream of the day in which my ex comes to me crying telling me that he has made a mistake funny thing but I know that deep in my heart he won't. We have no ties, no children, nothing....He won't see me, he won't call me, its as if I never existed. I have been hearing of his successes in his art crazy how I was there in the hard times and during the times that I had to sacrifice but he didd not want me there for his successes. It's painful to know that the other women is reaping the effects of our hard work.

his hurts because I felt that we were growing stronger and he had told me the same. this weekend I cried so much out of anger and frustration to know that he tells people that rather than telling him that he found someone else. What more did he want me to do, I was the best wife that I could be to him, I was also his best friend, and his agent when it came to his artwork. So I guess my best was not good enough for him.... Anyways, thank you for asking me. I do have my own place now but it feels empty without him. I miss being a housewife, I miss him alot but I guess things happen for a reason I just hope I know what the reason is pretty soon.... Well hope things continue to go well with you.. and thank you for remembering me.

Hello Jenny, Funny I was recently wondering how you were doing? I am glad things are better with you. As of for me, they were getting better but this weekend was really hard because of valentines and having to give up the keys of our house on valentines day. So I did see him that day but I just notice how he brushes me off as he never knew who I was. It hurts that fifteen years and he acts like im invisible or I never existed in his life. I have heard that he tells our acquaintances that things did not work out because we grew apart and that I did no support him on his artwork.

Hi-

Thanks so much - I could definitely use someone to vent to. I am sorry for your situation as well. What is wrong with these men?

We are not actually living apart yet. He travels a lot so we aren't together all the time. We also have a weekend house in the mountains so are spending some time apart on the weekends. We do end up in the same place most of the time though which probably doesn't help.

I am not sure why I haven't kicked him out except that I feel like if I do I am just handing him over on a silver platter to her and I want him to be the one that has to make the decision to leave. I can tell he does at least feel bad/guilty about leaving and hurting me and I want him to feel as much pain as possible before he leaves as vindictive as that sounds.

I will be more than happy to listen to you as well if you need me to. My e-mail is wtk5471gmail.com if you want to catch me there.

Thanks and take care.