Joy
Gold Contributor 500+ Posts

It is actually, in reality and in my new found heart which has been found

Well hello there mam

Really that's all you can do, wish him well and say fare thee well. To be treating you so shabbily while ill and depending on you says a lot about him. You certainly deserve better than that. Reminds me of my exhusband after I saw him through all his health and unemployment issues, telling me I didn't do enough. Some people deserve to be alone. WE deserve much better than we've gotten! This is the year to start getting it.

I'm focusing on getting trained for this new work - he is helping me learn what I need to know and making sure I have all the tools and equipment I need, as my trainer is a bit scattered. I have other areas of my like to work on too. Since all the stress with this I've started getting hot flushes, one day I didn't have them and the next - Wham! So I have to let go of the stress, it's messing me up.

How are you doing? Are you on your own now?

I'm ok, I miss the relationship I had but we are freinds and likely to stay freinds. I guess that's a good thing. Still some heartache.

I'm sorry to hear that. I know what you mean though. I've been hiding out for some time now. I feel completely trapped. If you want to say what's been going on then I'm here to listen but I won't pry. I just hope that everything turns around for you.

I'm not doing too good but I'm sure I'll live.

Thank you! Same to you. I hope your Holidays were great.

Hi there Beautiful!
I was so happy to see your name pop up today. I have been in the slough of despondency but have gotten out of it.
How are you holding up?

Well then it's in his favor, unless it's in both your names and he "relies" that you will keep paying them so that you don't get a bad credit rating and therefore he doesn't have to contact you...

Ahhhhh... can you speak to his parents? Ask them to assist? Or they wouldn't care.... You may be stuck, and have to continue paying it. Which sucks big time, don't sit around stewing over it for months though... If that ends up being the case, totally forget about emails, etc, get on with your life and unfortunately live with it in order for you to be free.

pfttttttt..... Find a way to rid of those finances or walk without them I know, I know, but you have to x