Wow, hate to lose a job when it's not by choice but sometimes that can move you in a better direction. I hope that's the case for you. Do check out those books because they talk about how to negotiate in the job market too. We Women just don't seem to value ourselves as highly as men will value themselves - know I'm guilty of that.

Thank you for the advice on the book but honestly I dont think I have to worry to much about that work situation anymore. Found out Friday they are downsizing by 13 people, 8 of which have been there over 4 yrs and I'm one of em. LOL!!! Honestly I'm not to upset, 6weeks of severance to get out of a job that I couldn't stand begin with. I still might look into those books tho

Hi,
Get the book, Women Don't Ask by Babcock and Laschever. I think you'll find it really helpful. Another is, Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office, by Frankel. Your work situation is really common!