Hi Lindsey I posted a message on the main board but I wanted to write a little more here. You were concerned about sex with your well endowed boyfriend.... So was I. Well endowed is an understatement lol. We have had many problems in the past because of it and I was worried that Something would either hit or rupture or that he would feel the cords but I just told him to be gentle for the first few times and once I got used to it, my body and mind relaxed and realized that what we were doing had no chance of getting us in trouble with pregnancy & had the best sex of my life lol. I hear that it's more mental for women than men so in that sense it's the best thing I could have done. There is more...lubrication than before (before I had a problem with not enough and now it's almost embarassing at times lol). It's strange but really... . It's not something most men would complain about anyway. Good luck and If you have any other questions that I could help with I'd be glad to