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As always, LLL is there like my little Knight giving me advice that I respect and "expect" haha, thanks for the effort you put in and your thoughts.... x

There is a difference and what we need in the world is a balance between them. Both offer some advantages and some disadvantages. There is trouble when either becomes completely dominate. That is what we have had a long run of and why we are struggling to restructure how we interact.

You are right. It goes on from both sides. Some of it is testing, some about power, some sick and cruel. A great deal of it is unconscious action and reaction, often passed on generation to generation. We all engage in some level of it, it's just part of how humans interact and take measure of each other. Those of us who are striving to move past that and to act consciously can have some real problems dealing with John Q Public who functions unconsciously.

Your mention of soaps is on target. I can't watch them or most other television, unless I consciously shut off part of my mind. It is too trite, stupid and very obvious that the charactures create most of their own problems. Yet people are glued to it day after day. I don't see women watching soaps as much different from men watching sports or crime/war shows - it's all about being part of an experience that you have no stake or risk in. It's all vicarious. Yet we humans can become hyper emotional about it to an extreme level.

Didn't mean to start a battle. I have some concerns about men or women treating sex or the way they connect with others and interact as some sort of manpulative game and that is what many of these programs or gurus do. This does tie into my personal beliefs, I'm not religious but am spiritual and do believe that we are here for a higher purpose than eating, sleeping and over reproducing. It is within our relationships with friends, lovers and ourselves that our greatest growth occurs. Both genders have gotten pretty screwed up in how they veiw each other. I don't like reducing it to a formula and it is manipulative of women, whether you realise it or not, whether ill intentioned or not, ultimately this doesn't move people forward. Although I can see that in some cases it is at least an improvement on the past. At some point men and women have to realise that it isn't about either one having the upper hand but about joining forces for the betterment of both and all.

mmm I actually like that "sexy piece of man beast"... good one lol. But, na... you may get a big head, lmao

What are you doing now? Reading my mind? lol... xx Hello you, I still haven't found a name for you yet darn... Special doesn't cut it somehow.

what on earth are you referring to?? gosh you confuse me wayyyy too often...that or its just me! haha miss you bunches! HA! you are old now!! actually I shouldnt laugh, cuz in a couple months I'll be a year older.... oh well.... :P love you

Well hello!!

Believe me .... I have been smiling.

haha, your interest got the best of you, did it?? Cant say I blame you...but checking up on me?? wow. hahahaha

xxxx

i have a concern...may i solicit your advice/insight?