hey for v-day i got my hubby a red hearted gift bag with 4 types of his fav candy king sized. mike and ikes, sour life savers, resses pieces and dove with almonds i got him this like wooden rose collect thing its not big about 1 foot in height and the movie The proposal . so what do you think ? is that good? will a man like it??? i hope so. a nice night in whatcha think?
You are not stupid. Trust has to be earned. He sounds manipulative. Why would he fly off the handle so easily? He's a master at turning everything to make it your fault. If one little thing is enough to get him that POd, he's not changing. Get into counseling, they should help you with some skills to deal with his behavior and to boost your self esteem.
i dont know? he said he was going to try last night and that hes sorry. well today i thought i left my phone in my car and he offered to get it and i told him no i can get it dont worry about it. mind you he has never done anything of this sort. so i was confused and wonderinmg y . so i guess i got defensive and he got mad and said see when i try to do something nice you ruin it and are a "" to me. i just said no dont worry about it. and he got upset. i was just confused and didnt get it. y he wanted to go get it. he said because it was cold and he wanted to be nice. and i blew it. i feel dumb that i did that.he sadi hes going to try and i was a stupid idiot i didnt even see that he was being nice and trying to help . cuz he never does. im stupid huh?and i hope he goes with me to counseling......so do you have any advice on getting over the past.? how i can just let go and trust him?
Sweetie I think counseling would be a really good idea. Make sure they are someone you are comfortable with and can work with. Your husband doesn't sound very emotionally supportive of you. You are a lovely and acring woman and deserve to be treated with loving respect. A counselor can help you with coping skills. What if it turns out that your depression is because your marriage is a negative situation for you?
hey do you think i should get counseling to fix this? taht was our agreement together but he doent think we need it now./ i knew this would happen. should i go? he said i need it and taht im depressed and that i do need my anti depressants. that i need to be happy and smile. stop being so sad. how? w.c? when i was in cali and i was dating this amazing guy so nice respectful... i never worried about him, i trusted this guy he made me feel whole again. i felt like a woman. i was wanted appreciated how do i get that feeling from my hubby? w/out seeming like a nag?
ok well ima go try to get that nice bubble bath in i hope i can find the lighter lol have a great night w.c thanks for the chat!! ttyt
That all sounds like a good plan!
HHHHHHHHHHHHMMMMM that sounds nice cant wait till my daughter falls asleep and tehn i may do that its been a while since i did that for myself sounds nice. so im still thinking of what i should do for my hubby for v day... i dont want to do teh same sewx thing dressing up like a fantasy and trying to get him to get aroused so ...... maybe bake him his fav lizzy chocolate chip cookies and give him oil back and body massage with the lights off and candles lite.... what do you think does that sound good??? mayeb do it in some sexy lingerie
Sounds like you need to do something to perk yourself up. How about a long soak in the tub with some candles burning and some peaceful;music?
how are you today? im ok it sucks its been raining all day long how muggy
