You know what, if you have had 3 or 4 miscarriages, I would suggest you go to a dr with your partner and you can get tests done to see why you are having miscarriages. I had a miscarriage in July, 2010 and then had a blighted ovum(when the sac develops and the fetus doesnt). I was told by the nurse at the hospital that if you have 3 or more miscarriages then there are tets that could be done to see why you are having miscarriages...The dr looks at the chromosomes and can see from there if that is the problem. Do not worry about not having a baby right now...I am worried just as well, and I know that I must focus on my well being and letting my body heal before I can think about having a child of my own.