Hi, I'd rather PM on this. You have to have 30 posts to gain that ability. I'd still counseling may be useful though just because they can help you get where you want to be - where ever that may be. My biggest concern with your situation would be that it could came to haunt you later in the form of mistrust. You know, the you did it before, why wouldn't you do it again? kind of thinking. Please take care.
WC
Part 2.
But, since I haven't had g-spot orgasm since I was like 17 (twice), i probably have developed some mental block against it. It is starting and I begin thinking about it and it's just not happening. So, I wanted to ask you 2 things: Is there some "at least" time he has to go on before you can climax in any of those positions? And did you have any techniques to clear your mind from thoughts and just let it go so it would finally happen? And you mentioned clitoris stimulation, you think that's a must?
I enjoy my sexual life now like never in my life, but I still hope we'll be able to achieve simultaneous orgasm some day.
Thanks a lot.
Part 1. (casue messages are limited) Well, actually, I think I overestimated the privateness of my issue:-)
Here is the thing, if you don't mind discussing it.
I noticed that we have somewhat similar relationship development and also same positions that give us the most pleasure sexually. I have also been constantly sexually active for about a year and the sex has been becoming better and better. Right now, however, me and my partner are in that stage where I can only climax when he gives me oral (which is not a problem - he loves doing it and I get it at least twice during sexual session). But I am very close to G-spot orgasm in those positions you described - him on his knees with my feet against his chest, or me on top. I can actually almost feel it's coming and often i even ejaculate.
You have to have a certain number of posts to be able to message privately, don't remember how many, maybe 12 or 15? But in the pink box that says "Welcome Ms A, you last visited...", you will notice that a private messages link will pop up, at which point you can send messages directly to a single person. Until it does, all you can do is post to my profile, but that's not super-private, I know.
