Nature has made sexual desire not merely for pleasure seeking. The other purpose of sexual desire is to continue generation i.e. to have kids and bring them up. Confining to sexual pleasure only is like putting all eggs in one basket. Nature has assigned many roles to human beings with an adequate combination of pleasures and pains. When we turn our eyes away from the hardship of parenting and regard only the sexaul pleasure as the sole meaningful satisfier of life, then its like you are picking and choosing from a single package of pain and pleasure. I am a forty years old husband of my 33 years old wife and father of three kids and has the frequency of three times of sexual intercourse per month but my wife never feels sexually frustrated due to the fact that she has her eggs placed in different baskets. When she is in the mood of sex and if am not in such mood, her indulgence with kids increases. I suggest you should plan a baby and then every thing will be alright. Zia Irfan
