Hi Jenny, good to hear that you are doing well in your marriage. I am so happy for you. YOu will soon find a job as long as you are happy with your family everything else will fall into its place. I am doing well, living my life as best as I can. I am trying to move forward but it still is hard especially when I see him with the other woman from time to time. That bums me out. I have made a decision to stop! stop hiding and going out to places I used to go to and not let fear of seeing him with her stop me from doing things that I love. I am so tired of thinking about him, still can't go on with a whole day without thinking about him. But life goes on... Thank you for thinking about me. I wish you the best and hope that you still keep in contact with me. Take care and talk to you soon.
Hi Passion, How are you doing? I hope and believe you are well. I am doing well and moving forward, we moved to a new house, we needed a new start and I am loving the new house! I am done with school and still looking for a job so that's got me a bit down. please let me know how you are. Jenny
Passion, I really believe that your heart needs to heal before you are able to share yourself with a man once again, I really hope that he will be who you need in your life! take care and please keep in touch. Jenny
Passion, I hope everything is going well for you, you seem to be handling the situation very well. All of the questions I asked were answered, and the main problem on his part was not including me in the things he did or wanted to do for fear of a bad reaction or judgement. We realize that even though we thought we were honest with each other, we kept very important things to ourselves. So we are building this marraige on honesty,communiction, and love. The bad outcome has now made our relationship so much better than I ever thought it could be. What's done is done and he is very thankful and grateful, as am I, that we could learn from our mistakes-learn from the past and look towards the future.We are having a great time making up for lost time and the kids could not be any happier!
I still spend a lot of time with my friends but to be honest with you I still feel lonely and empty inside and I still can't find the place where I belong. Hopefully this feelings soon will end because I am getting so tired of them. Well thank you for wondering about me. I am so happy for you and still have hope that there are men out there that care about their families. I wish all the best for you and your family. Please keep in touch. Take care Jenny
Hi Jenny, It's great hearing from you. I was also wondering how you were doing. I am so happy for you that things are going well. I understand that asking all of those questions probably hurt but maybe that will also help you heal and then move on with your relationship with your husband. I am doing better accepting reality. HOwever, I still have my moments there not as intense but I still feel sadness. I do still wake up in the morning thinking about him and going to sleep with him on my mind. Its just that it all happen so fast. Fifteen years ended in a couple of months and that is just plain painful to me. Although I am doing better I am now able to concentrate at work.
Hi Passion, I have you been thinking about you, and wondering how you are doing? I really hope that you are dealing with your separation/divorce as well as any woman can deal with it. please tell me how everything is going with you. My reconciliation is something that I never thought would happen, I was wrong.... My husband has been very open and has been very honest about what happened and why, I realize now that I was guilty of certain things as was my husband, I won't take anything for granted...I'll be honest there has been times that I have asked questions that I probably should'nt ask, yet I have; But he has been completely honest in his answers and I've always known that if you do not want to know the answer you should'nt ask. But I truely do believe that things happen for a reason and wheather things might not make sense or things are really hurtfull, there is something that can be learned from it! Please let me know how you are doing. talk to you soon! Jenny
Hi Jenny, Hope all is well with you. I am really happy that things seem to be working our for you. Keep doing what you were doing for yourself. I wish you all the best..... I continue to deal day by day my situation I just wish that one day all of this ugly and empty feelings fade away and wish that one day I will have a special person again in my life one that I can share my dreams and my love with. I miss being a wife, Jenny. I miss my home and my life.... I have to learn to live by myself now, I never wanted this I had made so many plans with my husband but all of that went to the trash and now I need to learn to do new ones.
Don't ever convince yourself that you were not special to him passion, because the two of you shared many special years together and you two have a lot of history together... As for what and why he left I will never understand either, I agree that it seems as though he just threw it all away for where he is at now. Do not think that she has more than you or something better than you, because I do believe in what comes around goes around, that women had no right after finding out his status to continue! All the best, keep your head up.
I feel a little strange because we are living apart still, yet we know its just a matter of time when I will just move back... we are talking a lot, and he even took me out to dinner, as if we are dating...he was nervous, I thought it was cute. You said you had a feeling he would come back..honstly passion, It hadn't crossed my mind! But we will continue to take things slowly... You are handling things very well, especially when you happen to run into both of them, I CANNOT imagine how painful that must've been I am so sorry for that! Remember things can only get better, the worst is behind you.
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