Hey Passion, Thanks for the response. I am not on here and use this site as much as I would like to be. I read your threads and my heart goes out to you. My advice is cry, cry it out. I want to say Men but it's people that change and when your in a relationship, it can change you world around. I am struggling with a few things with my significant other and I hope to post something soon to get some advice. Thank God for your friends they really seem to be helping you with this time in your life. Stay Strong.
It's very difficult to stay strong for me. I often break down and think that I won't stand up, my friends then pick me up and I am so grateful. In my marriage, I was happy and I thought he was happy. I never thought that I would not work out therefore I was not scared to marry him. If you feel right now that you are not sure that your happy then take some time for yourself and think about what will make you happy or to think if you will be happy in the relationship. I spend every waking moment with him and I did not spend time with myself and now I feel lost and out of control. I look at things differently in a way that I never saw them when with him. Right now we are in the process of a divorce and I feel like I failed but my friends and my dignity are that is keeping me a float.
Hi Passion. I am in a relationship but we both question is the other happy and if we individually are happy. I read these post and messages from you and Jenny. I am not yet married but so scared of getting married and then the relationship falling apart. How do you stay strong? Although, we have not broke up, I feel sad in our relationship and I need the skills to be happy in unhappy times. We can be in the same house, same bed but it feels we are worlds apart...
