Hi Passion,
How are you doing? I hope and believe you are well. I am doing well and moving forward, we moved to a new house, we needed a new start and I am loving the new house! I am done with school and still looking for a job so that's got me a bit down.
please let me know how you are.
Jenny
Passion, I really believe that your heart needs to heal before you are able to share yourself with a man once again, I really hope that he will be who you need in your life! take care and please keep in touch. Jenny
Passion,
I hope everything is going well for you, you seem to be handling the situation very well. All of the questions I asked were answered, and the main problem on his part was not including me in the things he did or wanted to do for fear of a bad reaction or judgement. We realize that even though we thought we were honest with each other, we kept very important things to ourselves. So we are building this marraige on honesty,communiction, and love. The bad outcome has now made our relationship so much better than I ever thought it could be. What's done is done and he is very thankful and grateful, as am I, that we could learn from our mistakes-learn from the past and look towards the future.We are having a great time making up for lost time and the kids could not be any happier!
think more than anything I miss having someone by my side sharing our lives together I still miss him but i realize that he is not the same person. It's also difficult to live in the same city as he because he has so many things going on as he is an artist. I hear about art shows that he will be showing its difficult to hear and realize that he now shares all that with the other woman and that all the people that I met are now meeting her. It hurts but I cant do anything about it. Just try to look away. Anyways, Jenny I am so happy that you contacted me. I was also wondering how you were doing and I am so happy for you. Please keep in touch.
I am glad things are going well for you. Communication will be very important in your relationship now and it's probably better if you ask all the question that you need to for your piece of mind. Like you said it hurts but that is part of the healing process and once you have all the questions answered you will be ready to just enjoy your relationship with your husband. I have been okay. I still have my moments where I think about him and wonder how he is able to forget me so easily. It still hurts I won't deny it but now I learned to accept it more. I still wake up every morning with him on my mind and I go to bed with him on my mind as well. But its not as intense as before. I
Hi Passion,
I have you been thinking about you, and wondering how you are doing?
I really hope that you are dealing with your separation/divorce as well as any woman can deal with it.
please tell me how everything is going with you.
My reconciliation is something that I never thought would happen, I was wrong....
My husband has been very open and has been very honest about what happened and why, I realize now that I was guilty of certain things as was my husband, I won't take anything for granted...I'll be honest there has been times that I have asked questions that I probably should'nt ask, yet I have; But he has been completely honest in his answers and I've always known that if you do not want to know the answer you should'nt ask.
But I truely do believe that things happen for a reason and wheather things might not make sense or things are really hurtfull, there is something that can be learned from it!
Please let me know how you are doing.
talk to you soon! Jenny
Don't ever convince yourself that you were not special to him passion, because the two of you shared many special years together and you two have a lot of history together...
As for what and why he left I will never understand either, I agree that it seems as though he just threw it all away for where he is at now. Do not think that she has more than you or something better than you, because I do believe in what comes around goes around, that women had no right after finding out his status to continue!
All the best, keep your head up.
I don't know Jenny, now I know that I was never special to him and that saddens me profoundly. I no longer know where my life will take me and to be honest I now live day by day. Its so difficult, I had hopes that he would come back but that day proved to me that he no longer has any second for me in his life.
I feel a little strange because we are living apart still, yet we know its just a matter of time when I will just move back...
we are talking a lot, and he even took me out to dinner, as if we are dating...he was nervous, I thought it was cute.
You said you had a feeling he would come back..honstly passion, It hadn't crossed my mind! But we will continue to take things slowly...
You are handling things very well, especially when you happen to run into both of them, I CANNOT imagine how painful that must've been I am so sorry for that! Remember things can only get better, the worst is behind you.
Passion,
Reading your post, I can completely put my myself there...I think the same way in which I also do NOT understand how a women can do what she does under those circumstances..although I do not wish any bad on anyone even still, I do believe that what comes around goes around.
If this means anything...men try to put on a facade and come across as though everything is perfectly fine, but in reality they are covering up there emotions so well...
