pompolo
Junior Member

my other half suffers from bi polar and has bn on meds for years (more than 10) his libido is pretty low but when we first met we had sex quite regularly altho he's confessed to taking viagra each of the times we had sex in our early encounters together which isnt an issue for me. the problem is that we hit a bad patch after i had the kids and our sex life never recovered. im now the one who keeps talking about having sex as we dont at all in our marriage. he says its because of his medication im confused coz now he says even with viagra he doesnt get the urge and i must just accept that thats us now. we made love once last year and once the previous year and he keeps coming up with excuses to do with his illness but it doesnt ring true and i think he may have resigned himself to not bothering with sex which i dont think im ready for at this stage in my life. , ilove him so much but im so lonely and find myself lying in bed next to him feeling a million miles away.