rcoreyus
March 2008 "Poster of the Month"

That's so sweet of you. Have you read about the Love Languages by Gary Chapman? This might come in handy for both of you.

How are you doing, Sir?

oooohhh ahhhh so sorry.. lol... well your information came up with other advertising sites, so i had to edit, I hate that.... sorry Corey... i said "google"? forgive....

hey Richard, ok? i dont know if i am ok. After last time i left he sorta tempted me to come back and try to work out things but they got worst than the beginning. I am considering a divorce and am all packed up to leave. My family is 100% behind me, which is a good feeling.

just testing, having problems with my computer and this site

There will always be one we battle for hey Ric..... Hope your well, long time no say hello.. So hello......

BOO!



Hope all is well with you.

Thanks for the input. I'll try to find a way to suggest it to her - but she tends to get very stressed / angry / defensive if I get anywhere near the subject of our sex life.

I'm glad things are improving for you

Hi rcoreyus,
I'm new on this forum, and came across some of your posts. It seems like we may have some marital/wife issues in common. Do you mind an unsolicited book recommendation? ... Married 3.5 yrs, wife lost interest in sex after our first baby. 2 years of gridlock followed, with frequent arguments & hurt feelings.
We recently found "The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting your marriage libido--A couple's guide" by Michelle Weiner-Davis, a sex therapist who works with "desire-discrepant" couples.
My wife and I are reading separately--to my surprise she's been really open to it. It supports the perspectives of both spouses, while challenging some beliefs as well. It also aims to help couples more effectively communicate.
We're still working through the book's recommendations. So far so good--I think she and I are breaking through the communication barrier.
If the book sounds interesting, check out other opinions--Amazon has numerous reviews.
Best wishes--
jss2000

Hope your new year has started off well.