Welcome to the Forum Sailor. I note you joined quite some time ago but have only just commenced posting. I deleted your second "copy" of post to the masterbation thread and your apology. Basically, all opinions are welcome, in a non-judgemental or non- demeaning approach.. If the post doesn't belong on the thread, don't write it.. You can click on a Moderators name and pose your question or apology there. If you've written a post, don't duplicate it. Any questions, feel free to visit a Moderators page and ask.. CW