somiserable
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Hi SoMi

Haven't seen any posts for a while everything ok?

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Happy New year to you to! I hope you are a lot happier this year, to be honest I'm wavering and I dont know why!!! I know he'll never change, but I think I got "comfortable" and thought it could be alright again but I know it never will be, I really hope you find the girl for you, you never know, there is someone out there for us all I'm sure!

I stumbled across the site searching for 'womens hobbies' in an effort to try and meet more women (I work in engineering and dating websites dont really work for me) and this site came up. The site hasn't really helped answer the question (see thread 'how do I meeet the women of my dreams). But it's kind of interesting, like being invited to a slumber party full of girls. There's a few guys on here and I have been welcomed so I don't feel like I am intruding. Truth e told there are only about 5% of the threads I can answer as 'lady problems' etc are not my area of expertise. The site has helped me realise I need to focus on me not on getting a girl. I've set some goals for this year in a move to be a little happier. PS happy new year

Are you in a relationship now then? I'm not technically minded so if you or anyone can help me uploading pictures I'd be grateful!! I noticed the tattoo of your dad, I have one too for mine! I want you to know that your words have meant such a lot and I feel that I can move on, there are so many helpful people on this site aren't there, from all corners of the world! Where do you live? I live in a little village in England called Wath upon Dearne, its near Sheffield, oops I'm waffling again!! I will read some of your blogs and learn a lot, many thanks for your help

LOL No not married, never married...engaged before but never married. If you have time you should read some of my post or blogs I have just as many issues if not more. However the biggest thing is i'm happy now! It took me a long time to get here and I have my off days but i'm happy. I'm sure you are beautiful inside and out Can't wait to see it

I know, after all, he brought it on himself, he cheated on me, not the pther way around, all I keep in the back of mind is that I did nothing wrong

You go for it! It can seem a little scary but you will be so much better off!

I am so glad to see you are feeling stronger already!