StillLearnin
Silver Contributor 100+ Posts

Thank you for being my friend StillLearnin. I enjoy your perspective..

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I know, I know. Just a thought.

If you love your wife with all your heart you will find a way. Please be patient. In my opinion, getting some on the side can be dangerous. Ask yourself....how would she feel if she found out????

Maybe getting some on the side and keeping the marriage going without the stress is the thing to do when there are kids involved. I really want to keep a stable home for my children and be there for them everyday.
I don't know what the answer is. I'm really tired of trying to find the answer.

It is so frustrating dealing with this. How come when we were younger we weren't wise enough to 1) choose a mate that we are sexually compatible with and 2) address the tough issues and deal with it when it came up? Rather than waiting 20 years to try to work it out.

Funny you should suggest hooking up. It has crossed my mind many times. It is so frustrating. I have tried so many things that have not worked. I am thinking it is hopeless!!