I can imagine WC when most of your past will be settled by the last experience it will be 1 huge load off of your shoulders, a big weight will be lifted, those things can drag us down even in the best of spirits, do they not?
Does not 2 worlds coming together make the 1, I mean you said it your self, you balance 1 another, neither by your world alone or his. So, if one lives in their world only or the others only then I don't see it working, for anyone in General. I know what you mean, don't take me wrong. But as for me if I was to live wholly in my world then I can't see having that true fulfillment in a relationship. Am I making sense?

No, not me! ah,lol