WildChild
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That's what we suspected at first. Then I have indoor plants. We realized later, I gave them a luscious breeding ground, and they started pestering us, biting even. I removed 1/4 of soil on top of my potted plants and replaced it with sand and added some Sevin dust with cedar granules to ward them off - it worked (for 2-3 weeks). Now, we are feeling one or 2 flying by. And I saw some coming in through the crack in the backdoor of our house, and a lot of dead ones, when I did those measures, in the guest bathroom, hence, we are also considering pouring some ammonia in our drains and sinks and leave it for a night or two.

I read online that those are no ordinary fruitflies, but gnats who love fungus, and rotting stuff. They have killed a lot of my tropical palms.

My imagination went wild as a matter of fact after I read "orgies". LOL... It reminded me of an article I read about a nudist society which have their own gated community, and how they go about their day-to-day activities of life naked in their very own backyard/front yards.

Aww, don't give up. But then again, that's what I just told myself about wanting more sex and not getting as much as I would want - and then the opposite just happened, which I hope is not short lived. I'm actually marking my calendar on this one. (shhhh...he's scoring pretty high this week).

Btw, I'm having a bad gnats infestation inside my home. We're suspecting they are getting in through the drains, as when he first moved in, the clean-out was open, plus we had our sewer line. Likewise, our backdoor - they are also able to get through there, we might need to replace it completely... Bottomline: Jeremy hates this house he bought. He feels he's been tricked.

Hah! You made my head spin there for a bit - orgies? WTF? Oh, did I just say that?! Maybe focus on writing a book about how to enhance orgasms the WC way? I'm actually interested about it, as I don't have the $ to buy all the various books you've recommended - so why not the WC style?

Vegan soup sounds good... You know, Jeremy had been talking about riding bicycles in your part of the mountain.

I'm planning on getting myself a kegelmaster from you, serious about it. Why would I get it from anybody else? I am worried about my biological mom, as she is in her mid-60's and she's had complete hysterectomy, no sex at all ever since my dad died, and she doesn't play by herself (I know, that's how she "trained" me)... I wonder if she'd be open to do such thing just for the purpose of helping her pelvic/floor/vaginal wall and prevent incontinence?

With regards to reading Tolle's stuff, I take everything with a grain of salt. And though Jeremy was the one who introduced me to his writing, he himself does the same precaution.

No, Ma'am, you're not a slow learner - you are the opposite. Slow learners would not address nor recognize the reality as you are doing. It is depressing, yes, but it is at the same time refreshing that in the midst of your pain, you recognize the learning, the yearning, the void...yet continue to live, to breath and enjoy life as it happens.

I guess so. Not sure if it was Elkhart Tolle who said something about the second consciousness - but I see that's what you're doing - recognizing your current state and just being. That's how I felt during the second break up (remember that time?), I dated, but nobody came close.

Time would tell, indeed...time would also heal....you never cease to educate me with your experiences.

How is the kegel Mistress doing in business?

I'm alright. I'm "enjoying" the benefits of being a "house" wife.

Good evening! Hope this VM finds you well.

OK, fair enough! But that's almost a different subject, I think, and I don't want to start a thread that sounds like those TV ads with the his 'n' hers bathtubs... although that stuff is effective too. And so are the treatments for "Low T" as it's euphemistically called.
But I've got to go to sleep: I get up in about 5 hours!

Me start a thread on the benefits of kegels for men???
I dunno - I'm somewhat uninhibited (since nobody here knows me!!!) but I don't think I'm THAT open...
I could just say I'm keeping that secret to myself!

I've never heard of an Athena Festival, but considering Athena's position in the Greek pantheon, I can guess what it might be about!
And yes, I know about kegels for men, having done them for many years, not as regularly as I might, but often enough. I don't know about the PE benefits, never having had that particular problem, but they certainly do confer other benefits...
Never have done drugs either - well, not any illegal ones, anyway. That "death" side-effect was always a bit too much of a deterent!
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And I can only imagine that you're good at "taking people out of their comfort zone!"
Have a good night!
- TR